i dont wanna wear it!

subhanallah i really want to wear a hijab but my mother is always like wait till u finish high school then wait till u graduate from uni next will be wait till u get married.
i wish i had the family to give me the encouragment u have, u should be very grateful.

Dont be like the girls who one day put the scarf on the next take it off and keep repeating the cycle. Its really brings a bad image for us.
 
maryam87 said:
subhanallah i really want to wear a hijab but my mother is always like wait till u finish high school then wait till u graduate from uni next will be wait till u get married.
i wish i had the family to give me the encouragment u have, u should be very grateful.

Dont be like the girls who one day put the scarf on the next take it off and keep repeating the cycle. Its really brings a bad image for us.
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sounds like what most asian parents do with the beard "just wait till your married" they say

but we aint got Allahs permission to wait right?...
 
Sahabiyaat said:
i'd just like to advise people to use kinder words,...i know we all get passionate, im not one to talk,but bit more sympathy, bit more understanding :)
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AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu

Yeah i think i was too bit harsh imsad it think even the title "i dont wanna wear it!" made me really annoyed

I stick by the advice i gave though, maybe ill edit some bits.

I do understand whats shes going through. We All go through different phases of imaan, theres times where things are really hard, and other times its really easy. Im sure our sister will look at the posts and really think about it.

Forgive me for any offence cause.:cry:

FiAmaaniAllah
 
sometimes my dear sister, we need to rethink over somthings. like:
are we worshiping people? or the God of people?
are we seek people satisfaction? or their God?

well, this is might be something that everyone know by heart, but we need to think about it deeply.

I dont know where u live sis and what kind of people you face everyday. but believe me if you keep looking for people sanctification you will never ever end.
dont care about their looks, and dont keep wearing hijab out of fear of your parents. You dont do this even for your parents
remember who you are doing this for. If the people dont like it, then just ignore them all. hijab is for your own good and preservation.
 
well i understand when people got mad and watever i mean i expected both positive and negative comments . but anyways i just u know felt like i was shocking and i needed to talk to someone i guess anywayz just forget my post.
 
Do you know how great it is that your parents actually support hijab?
I love my hijab with all my heart, I would never want to take it off. It shows you don't care what people think and you put God in front of everything. Did you know that you are a WALKING dawa? Shaytaans just hatin! Brush your shoulders and move on its just a phase. Hijab is the most beautiful elegant and innocent look on any woman and if anyone opposes they're like blind. Keep wearing it, I swear it will pay off. If you wear hijab it's a sign that you respect your body. I do and most mithajbehs (hijabis) do. If you're eating goooooood fat free ice cream and this stupid mutant is telling you to stop but your parents tell you to keep eating it. Would you stop? Sister, don't you feel worth something? Seriously, Hijab is the BEST thing that has happened to me. It teaches countless morals. Don't stop, because no offense it's a very poor and stupid decision. I'm just trying to help you out. I hope you
 
A big brother is suppose to show when his not happy with something.

you guys think its us being harsh, no it isnt just being harsh, its trying to show HOW SEVERE what shes asking is, how SEVERE it is that she wanted to go behind her parents backs, how SEVERE it is that she wanted to take off the hijaab and publicly defy Allaah.


It isnt just about being harsh, its about clearly SHAKING TO REALITY the person who asks these questions.



if you cant take a bit of tough love then exit this dunya, you cant handle it.



Assalamu Alaikum
 
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I think the arabic text reads: 'You won't be able to stop them (i.e guys), but you can protect yourself. He who created you, knows what's best for you'
Wearing hijab is a sign that you respect your body and yourself, and that you are modest.
 
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Come on sis, don't think of discarding your hijab inshaAllah. The hijab isn't just a piece of cloth sweety. It's protection and a reason for earning Allah's blessings and pleasure. Do you know that when a woman goes out in hijab, two angels are assigned to protect her? :thumbs_up

My dear, we can all choose to dress as we like but at what cost? :cry: Jannah is just to precious to lose out on - don't you think? This one little action can bring so much misery, but fulfilling it fi sabilillah can give us so much in return. Ahhh, please don't deliberately exempt yourself from Allah's blessings in the duniya and here-after. I feel sure you won't ditch your hijab. It saddens me when I cannot recognise a muslimah and do not know whether she is hindu, sikh or of another religion. You belong to the Ummah sis. Please allow yourself to be recognised and cherished as so. imsad
 
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Just think of what you have said, remember there is no medicine for regret
 

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