I feel depressed, why won't Allah help me?
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Your welcome sis I'm glad I can be of some help insha'allah.
Salam, I feel I can understand exactly what you are going through,
I really don't know what advice to give exactly, I am sorry, But what I know is everything will get better, you always see people saying this, and you think no! time will pass but things will hurt as much as they hurt now, but no, with time you learn to deal with everything beautifully, and months from now you will look back at yourself and feel extremely happy and thankful to Allah for making you the person you have become after passing through that storm.
Pray consistently, talk to Him whenever you feel sad, pour your heart out to Him, not to people, cz He can change things, people can't. Read morning and evening Adkaar, and be patient with a beautiful patience.
Patience and prayer is the key. Its actually as simple as that.
I really don't know what advice to give exactly, I am sorry, But what I know is everything will get better, you always see people saying this, and you think no! time will pass but things will hurt as much as they hurt now, but no, with time you learn to deal with everything beautifully, and months from now you will look back at yourself and feel extremely happy and thankful to Allah for making you the person you have become after passing through that storm.
Pray consistently, talk to Him whenever you feel sad, pour your heart out to Him, not to people, cz He can change things, people can't. Read morning and evening Adkaar, and be patient with a beautiful patience.
Patience and prayer is the key. Its actually as simple as that.
Greetings and peace be with you t123;
Despite all your problems, your replies always say, thank you. Being grateful, means you are already on the road to healing, and this is a story I often tell on this forum....
I met a homeless man around midnight, he had been homeless for about six years, and suffered with depression at times. He was looking for somewhere to sleep. He said every night when he finds somewhere to sleep, he thanks God for all the good things of the day. It was a humbling experience to listen to this man being grateful, he carried his home in a bag, some days he went hungry, and did not speak to anyone.
You are suffering a form of bereavement, and I heard it explained this way, if you spent say ten hours a week with this person, you are suffering the loss of ten hours of doing something that was meaningful for you. What you now need to do, is find something meaningful every week to fill those ten hours. Devote that ten hours a week to Allah in some way, doing voluntary work is so healing, when you help others.
In the spirit of never giving up hope in Allah.
Eric
Despite all your problems, your replies always say, thank you. Being grateful, means you are already on the road to healing, and this is a story I often tell on this forum....
I met a homeless man around midnight, he had been homeless for about six years, and suffered with depression at times. He was looking for somewhere to sleep. He said every night when he finds somewhere to sleep, he thanks God for all the good things of the day. It was a humbling experience to listen to this man being grateful, he carried his home in a bag, some days he went hungry, and did not speak to anyone.
You are suffering a form of bereavement, and I heard it explained this way, if you spent say ten hours a week with this person, you are suffering the loss of ten hours of doing something that was meaningful for you. What you now need to do, is find something meaningful every week to fill those ten hours. Devote that ten hours a week to Allah in some way, doing voluntary work is so healing, when you help others.
In the spirit of never giving up hope in Allah.
Eric
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Sister, when I was at the edge of despair or felt despair in my heart, I opened the Quran and read:
20:2
We have not sent down to you the Qur'an that you be distressed
20:3
But only as a reminder for those who fear [ Allah ]
So, sis. you fear Allah, and take this as a lesson to not form haram relationships, and I know (from what you wrote) that you only intended good (marriage)
Remember, for every hardship, there is ease. That ease will be better than the hardship, afaik.
Try to do dhikr, say Alhamdulillah, Allahu akbar, and SubhanAllah (33 + 33 + 34 = 100)
may Allah ease your hardships, and guide you towards Him. Ameen.
Peace be upon those who follow guidance.
And Allah :swt: knows best.