I feel my duas make my marriage worse

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Asalaam alaykum.

I have been married for over 4 years and my husband doesn't give me all my rights. I don't even ask for all of them some, he gives less than the bare minimum.

I have prayed so much for changes... all the times duas are accepted, ramadhan, tahujjud etc

I feel the days i pray hard in tahujjud or get really emotional asking Allah to bring ease and make my marriage better... me and my husband always end up arguing.

I have come to the point I just want a divorce. But I'm told as im pregnant I should stay and that no one is happy these days.

I want nothing more than my marriage to be better but I've lost so much respect for him but i dont see him changing. Hes a narcissist, manipulates me and gaslights me.

I always end up apologizing and he will ignore me for days.

Hes always been emotionally unavailable and I have literally begged him for his love and attention.

I feel I'm constantly walking on eggshells as I don't know what will set him off. If we argue he will continue as if nothing happens.

I don't know what to do anymore. I have no where to go or what to do.

I have continued my duas that things will get better but barely. I cant spend my life with someone like him.
 

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