I hate children, I really do

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Having children prevent u from doing things u want to do, and my brothers wife is having a second baby and I want them to get rid of that baby and give that baby to someone else, I really mean it. Children are unnesesary and useless.

Looking after them is the biggest pain
 
Hope that your Parents did not think like that about you ..and leave you ...when you were a child.

Why are you thinking of them giving the child to some one else ?
I dont think any of your reasons would be accepted.

Is it your thought or their (your bros' family)?

Yes it is hard to control those little ones...:) ..but things will change as they grow..as of now enjoy their play..
 
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Lol, how do you think you got here? You were once a baby too.

Baby aren't useless, subhanAllah. Raising one can be complicated and takes lots of responsability, but that's just the things that come with when you're a parent.

If everyone gave up on babies, would there be scholors today? or Imams or even sheikhs? doctors? This just show to you that after all that hard work on raising children, they could one day inshaAllah grow up to be an imporant aspect in the world. :)
 
Hate? Really?

Did you even think before you wrote any of that? Because I all seriousness brother you sound like a sociopath.
 
No, I don't believe this brother really means that he hates babies. Hate is a big word.

He's probably over reacting or something...
 
seekerofjannah said:
No, I don't believe this brother really means that he hates babies. Hate is a big word.

He's probably over reacting or something...
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^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ hope your right sis



Bro how can you dislike children haha they are a bundle of joy when they are young, there so cutee n that new born baby smell i need 2 bottle that stuff up ;D.......... i guess you have 2 cut back on a few things u wanna do after having children but it sure as hell worth it :statisfie
 
What if the child grows up to be a loser and a complete moron, and if tried my best to raise Him or her well but yet they still turn out bad, i would give the child to some good Muslim family that would like a child.
 
MrKhan89 said:
What if the child grows up to be a loser and a complete moron, and if tried my best to raise Him or her well but yet they still turn out bad, i would give the child to some good Muslim family that would like a child.
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Wait what because your child doesn't turn out to be as smart as you'd hope to be or as successful you shouldn't love them any less or give up on them well i don't intend to, as long as you've tried your best to raise them.........the rest is up to Allah isn't it
 
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sub7anAllah you are not born with Knowledge, you teach your child and encourage him to learn, you don't give up on him/her if they are not a genius from the get-go. Like you said, you try your best to raise your child, but you cannot know the outcome of his future life by a few slip ups or mistakes he might commit while growing up. Having a child requires you to show unlimited to support, because raising them is not just teaching them how to talk to or walk, it's being there for them and having patience through it all. That is what makes you a parent. That is also how you get part of the Ajer (good deeds).
 
Children become teenagers though. Once that happens, Allah help us all.
 
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MrKhan89 said:
Having children prevent u from doing things u want to do, and my brothers wife is having a second baby and I want them to get rid of that baby and give that baby to someone else, I really mean it. Children are unnesesary and useless.

Looking after them is the biggest pain
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you need to learn how to deal with and understand children in order to like them. if you don't understand them, then they will seem whiny and annoying.

saying children are unnecessary and useless, is a load of ignorance in my opinion...after all, how do you think mankind continues...
 
how can you hate children???! They're the most innocent thing ever!

I hope Allah blesses you with lots of cute obedient children InshAllah xD
 
Subhannallah istagfurullah what a insane thing you said. Children is a gift from Allah and there you are speaking ill of innocent little children.

Having children is the best thing in this dunya, your money and materials is nothing without having children.
Please brother go see doctor this is not right. If i was you leave your brothers second baby alone it does not concern you.
Tell me brother who is going to look after you when you are ill or when your old eh?
 
MrKhan89 said:
Having children prevent u from doing things u want to do, and my brothers wife is having a second baby and I want them to get rid of that baby and give that baby to someone else, I really mean it. Children are unnesesary and useless.

Looking after them is the biggest pain
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Are saying someone shouldn't have given birth to and raised you?

I don't understand people who hate children and seem to forget the fact that no becomes an adult without being a child....

Also it's a horrible thing to say you want your brother to give the baby to someone else, some people wait years for a child. In fact the whole idea is ridiculous.
 
Having children is the best thing in this world. You can have one or two,
I don't think that you will find a wife who will except this....
 
remember once you were a child and inshaAllah one day you will be a father and when u experience the love a father has for a child maybe youll understand.

kids rock ;) and sure they are pains and sure its a hard job but its all worth it
 
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