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:sl: I Hope You Are All In A State Of Good Imaan.
Well The Title Says It All, I Havent Got Any Real Friends, I Mean At Uni I hang With A Couple Of Girls But They Arent Really Practising.
I Sometime Feel Lonely Because I Used To Be Really Popular And I Would Love To Have One Good Sister Who I can Talk To Not About The Deen But About Life And Just Be Girly.
Sometime It Gets Lonely.:cry:

I Think I am A Good Person, I Am Very Honest And Maybe Not Everyone Likes Someone Who Tells Them The Truth Rather Than A lie.:w:
 
I am sorry to hear that, sister.

Luckily, we now have the technology to communicate with people across the whole world, and to find like-minded people in other places.
Which is exactly what you are doing when you post here.

Try to find a sister here, who you can trust and chat with. Exchange email addresses, chat on msn.

I have made some good friends here over the years, and some I stay in email contact with quite regularly ...

Peace :)
 
it's hard to find a true friend... a friend that would be there when you lost everything...that would cry with you when you're facing difficulties...a friend that would never leave you when whatsoever happened...

Alhamdulillah... I have my family... they are my true friends...

I trust them so much... that if they ask someone to kill me.. I would not be upset..as I knew...whatsoever they do...it's for my own goodness.

Alhamdulillah..
 
university is completely different from college/sixth form, because like in 6 form, you know everyone and they know you, and its a small knit community, but in university its bigger and there is loads of people, you have to make the effort, like if you do see a practising person, just go up to them in the lecture and start chattin awaay, :D if they think your weird then so whaat lol, and like broo north said, family are the bestest friends, remem that

but in uni, get socialising, dont restrict yourself to one or two groups, go out there:D thats the only way you can find more friends
 
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Aww, I can be your true friend if you want me to!
Nah, like bro chacha_jalebi said, get socialising and yep your family are the best of friends you can ever get! :)
And if you still feel lonely then just come pay us a visit init! :D

:w:
 
On the Day of Judgement, you will be tested by yourself.
It's important to have one quality friend than 600 acquaintances or so called "friends"
In fact, I know only a few practicing Muslims myself. My family is not as supportive or religious and my friends are all of different cultures and religions. My friends are sweet people, but sometimes, it takes an extra effort to get them talking about the deeper meanings of life. I get frustrated with them and I get lonely because they don't understand.
When I began trying to be religious, I thought if I met one good Muslim friend, everything would be nice. I'd have support. Support is a good thing, but as Muslims, our support, imaan should come from our own strength, too.
It's like people thinking that if they get married they can concentrate on Islam and not their sexual desires. But I don't think people should think like that because we don't know our futures. So why not know just conquer over your desire for the opposite sex or in your case, your desire for support/attention right now. Happiness comes from religion and worship. Everything else tries to fill the void of the love we need to feel.

This site will always be here for you. But it is in your own will that you further into the next step.

Plus, Allah (swt) is Better than any friend or family. Sister, I suggest you to spend some time remembering Allah (swt) and working on that relationship first. Because that will give you everlasting bliss and satisfaction.

Take this time to build your independence and your dependence on Allah (swt)

Be content with yourself.
I once discovered an Emily Dickinson poem.

I'm nobody! Who are you?
Are you nobody, too?
Then there's a pair of us — don't tell!
They'd banish us, you know.

How dreary to be somebody!
How public, like a frog
To tell your name the livelong day
To an admiring bog!
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At first it may seem a little hard to understand
but here's a link that may explain its significance
http://www.beyondbooks.com/lit71/1f.asp

:D I'd love to be your e-friend :thumbs_up
 
asalam alaikum wr wb,

Sis you have me! :D

InshaAllah, I will be a friend who you can talk to.




wa alaikum asalam wr wb.
 
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i think it's not right to exchange emails on the forum, maybe you should send it via PM or something
 
asalam alaikum wr wb,

^ Why brother? What can happen? Plus even if I pm it, all anonymous user can see it when they use the account.

wa alaikum asalam wr wb
 
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nah im just sayin sis, because random people will start adding you after they see ur email, and you'll start recieving spam mail etc.
 
Muslimah_Sis said:
asalam alaikum wr wb,

^ Why brother?
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Against forum rules ma dear! :X

What can happen?
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Can get a warnin' from LI's most annoying.

Plus even if I pm it, all anonymous user can see it when they use the account.
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asalam alaikum wr wb,

nah im just sayin sis, because random people will start adding you after they see ur email, and you'll start recieving spam mail etc.
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Ah jzkAllah khair bro but that's not a problem really. The junk filter deals with that for me.

Against forum rules ma dear!
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Tnx, I didn't know it was against rules :-[ Hmmm.. so there's no other way?


Can't. Users are unable to receive or send private messages frm this account.
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Oops, I meant even if I rep it....... :hmm:

wa alaikum asalam wr wb
 
read the story of abu darr radhiallahu anhu.

we're born alone and we'll die alone,




if we're blessed enough to get a saadiq (friend) as good as as-sideeq (abu bakr radhiallahu anhu) then Allahu akbar, but we still have family :D


i pray Allah grants you a great friend inshaAllaah, dnt wry im sure you will find one if you ask Allaah for one.


Assalamu Alaikum
 
Muslimah_Sis said:
Hmmm.. so there's no other way?
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where there's a will theres always a way :D

If the original poster wants to accept your kind and considerate offer, they can send u a PM from their user account ( assuming they have one on LI!
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tht way... u can exchange emails safely
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Oops, I meant even if I rep it....... :hmm:
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members can only post frm the AnonymousGender account. Can't see reps..
 
Assalamualaykum

Sister AnonymousGender, I do understand what you are going through and have been in that situation myself. All I can advise you to do is make dua to Allah SWT that you find a Sister that you can talk to freely and like many Brothers and Sisters that have already posted said that, your family is your friend. If you need to talk to anyone, talk to Allah through your prayers and then family.

May you be granted happiness and your problems solved.:) Remember, if you need a friend: I'm here! :) And so are the rest of the Brothers and Sisters of this forum.

Assalamualaykum
*KB*
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:sl: MashaAllah Jazakallah Khair For All Your Help, I Don`t Know I guess Is Hard To Go From Popularity To Erm Well Nothing But Is True I Do Need To Work On My Relationship With Allah SWT He Has Been Very Good And Merciful Towards Me.

I Guess This Is A Test To Go Back To Him, As I Havent Been The Best Of Muslim Right Now .
May Allah SWT Increase All Of Our Iman.

Topic Can Be Closed Now:statisfie
 
anonymous said:
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where there's a will theres always a way :D

If the original poster wants to accept your kind and considerate offer, they can send u a PM from their user account ( assuming they have one on LI!
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tht way... u can exchange emails safely
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members can only post frm the AnonymousGender account. Can't see reps..
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asalam alaikum wr wb

You're right inshaAllah if the sister is willing she is more thna welcome to do that.

I think the anon account may have changed since I last used it. I clicked on user cp on it once and saw the rep I'd given to someone who'd used the account. Oh well, that's sorted then.


AnonymousGender said:
:sl: MashaAllah Jazakallah Khair For All Your Help, I Don`t Know I guess Is Hard To Go From Popularity To Erm Well Nothing But Is True I Do Need To Work On My Relationship With Allah SWT He Has Been Very Good And Merciful Towards Me.

I Guess This Is A Test To Go Back To Him, As I Havent Been The Best Of Muslim Right Now .
May Allah SWT Increase All Of Our Iman.

Topic Can Be Closed Now:statisfie
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Ameen. Every moment is a test hun. And may Allah give us the sabr and strength to sail through each one. Still we all need friends between the moment we are born and until we die - even after that to pray for us inshaAllah. Just so you know I meant what I said, I'm here for you sis.


wa alaikum asalam wr wb.
 

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