I like this Girl, Does she Like me?
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Hayub
Bro, when we are young our emotions surpass our logical thinking, and we do make mistakes solely based on your emotions, and the word “love” or “like” is more deceptive than it appears.
If you don’t want to propose, then don’t. And if you don’t want to tell her parents then don’t, but tell each other that you like each other and just leave each other for the sake of Allah, and marry each other when ready for the sake of Allah.
But in the meantime do all that is Halaal, if you really want to have a serious relationship with her, stay away from relationships which are outside the bounds of marriage.
Look at it this way you have angered Allah when you dated a non-Muslim, I am not in a position to judge you or her because of that, but try to avoid angering Allah again after He has been kind and merciful to you. Don't be ungrateful, and don't be among those who go astray after being guided to the right path.
Advice: Seek Allah’s Pleasure and those you are pleased with will seek you.
thank you, your comment was the best advice i received and took to heart. i think i will talk to her and let me know i like her and see if she wants to go to each others parents. I guess if she feels the same way i do she wont have a problem.
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^^MashaAllah bro. May Allah(swt) help you InshaAllah, Ameen.
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Bro...always remember that Allah has a wider picture in his scheme...
i have lived a much more tragic relationship. i pride myself on it though. elhamdullilah i did nothing wrong inshallah.
when it was over..there was one thing that came into my mind:
"why didnt you tell me before? why didnt you end it?"
bt then i looked back and said the cliche thing to myself:
"elhamdulillah it ended before it got any futher"
i was very much attached...possibly to the point of no return...but after much anguish...prayer, tears, emo blah...
and now Allah has opened my eyes to the wisdom...months down the track i see how wrong it would have been, regardless of all that went into the relationship, for us to be together.
i know how attached to her you are. she must be a sweet girl. but try to do tawakkul...let it go...give it into the hands of whom you can trust.Let Allah take the reigns and watch him guide both ur heart and mind...and her heart and mind...
but you must obviously remain somewhat active. you cannot just pray and let it all go...
i wud advise you to get a friend to speak with her. she may not want to share things with you. i do not want to critisize her stance at the moment...i do not know her.
or u cud get through to parents. this will show her that u are serious and stable in your feelings etc...the other guy seems to be a lil confusing..he cannot offer her stability.
trust Allah. Always keep in mind that Allah knows best. it may be her..it may not..but at the end of the day..ur gna get the perfect girl for u inshallah.
also..remember that Allah will give u someone who is ur equivalent in some way. keep ur heart clean so that u may be granted a woman like that...
goodluck.
try not to think about it too much. dont fill ur human folly gaps with love for a woman...but love for Allah...
w/s.
sevgi.
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Bro, I have given you the best advice I would have given myself had I been in your situation. And I am sure the other brothers and sisters gave you the advice they thought was most fitting.
You should thank all those who have taken the time to help you out, and i am glad i was of some help.
Salaam and best of luck to you.