I Love my Cousin but....

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This thread is more than year old, he's probably already come to a decision :hmm:
 
it's a weird feeling to be in love - especially the way you grin to yourself when you get over it and remember all the foolish things you said and did, but hey - it's a feeling that somehow overwhelms a person at the time, everyone - go easy on the brother!
if it works out while you are calm and composed without acting desperate - then great,
but remember, even girls like to see men as something to catch, and grovelling too much makes you inferior and easy to get in their sight.
and her family will discuss you amongst themselves as a problem to protect her from rather than a suitor they must please.
that doesn't mean you have to punch her in the face or anything just to show them you don't care, ;D
just striking a balance.
i would personally advise you to stay calm about it and stay immersed in activities that will ensure you spend the least time you can antagonising over her and feeling weak and helpless.
cheer up, don't watch too much bollywood with all it's sad fake sobs stories, and read about the battles of the Prophet (pbuh) and the sahabah, that will work towards strengthening your heart and stop feeling weak,
and definitely do spend a lot of time laughing or joking, it helps a lot. and watch this FUNNY call center episode with a woman bent on suicide, when she heard them squabbling - she gave up and chucked the toaster out the bath more out of confusion and anger than out of desperation - picture people seeing you as that woman and you'll surely feel like hiding in a corner:

 
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