I need you ummati...may you advise me?

[islamirama]

here's some advice you in return.

What did the sahaba do after that bilal incident? He told bilal to put his foot on the face of this sahaba. They both embraced each other like brothers afterward. What did your friends do when you asked for forgiveness, did they, like bilal, embrace you and made up or are they still ignoring you and keeping everything just platonic?

This is our ummah and not western society but also a believer is never stung twice from the same hole. I don't have to hate the person but i'm not obligated to remain friends with someone i don't want to.

Yahya ibn Mu'adh once said "
“A friend is the one who you don’t have to remind to remember you in his (her) supplication, and that you don’t have to flatter and impress, and that you don’t have to apologize to.”

Share that with your "friends" they are more in need of it than i am.

 

[Umm Amatullah]

Inshaa Allah, I know our situation is different, but I thought I would post it as an advice in general for everybody.