" I want Miss Perfect" Syndrome of Men

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Re: " I want Miss Perfect Syndrome of Men "

yes, I would think so Muraad.

 
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CosmicPathos said:
I am not sure why would your wife think that your friend is an idiot who does not deserve to marry such a "perfect woman." He is your friend after all .... S:
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Actually "neighbor" is more accurate to describe my relationship with him. He's around 10 years younger than me, and I know him just because he worked in a small company that rented office rooms beside my home/office. My wife didn't know his wife because we didn't attend in his wedding. But he introduced his wife to me when she came to his office.

Why my wife thought he did not deserve to marry that woman?. He's childish and could not bear responsibility in marriage. When he got a little problem he always left his home and slept in other places including in his office. That's started happen only few months after he got married. My wife knew it. And I knew his problem because he told some people around him.

He got divorced few months after his wife came to my home. Luckily they didn't have kid.
 
it's a tough world, we all have to work towards perfection anything less is not acceptable
 
ardianto:

Well said and well done, my friend.

Thank you for the touching insight and story.
 
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Insha-Allah Shaykh Assim al-Hakeem will discuss about the issue of a perfect partner at our marriage seminar which will take in next week in London.
 
aadil77 said:
it's a tough world, we all have to work towards perfection anything less is not acceptable
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Is not true that people could not accept us if we are not perfect. Even if we have been obsessed with perfection, people would not accept us. It's because those who obsessed to being perfect would always look only at other people shortcomings, it will makes them become arrogant.

Different than those who realize that perfection is belong only to Allah. They will never try to become perfect, but they will always try to become good persons who can respect and respected by other people.
 
DiscoverIslamUK said:
Insha-Allah Shaykh Assim al-Hakeem will discuss about the issue of a perfect partner at our marriage seminar which will take in next week in London.
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Nothing like this takes place here! this isnt fair! I always wished that we had live lectures of scholars here but alas!

I have never attended one... :hmm::hmm::hmm:
 
Al-bint said:
Nothing like this takes place here! this isnt fair! I always wished that we had live lectures of scholars here but alas!

I have never attended one... :hmm::hmm::hmm:
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If you come to the lecture because you expect Shaykh will tell you how and where to find perfect man, you will be disappointed. There's no perfect human, Shaykh Assim Al-Hakeem must be knows about it.

I don't know what Shaykh will talk, but I guess, not so different than other lectures, how to build good relationship in marriage, how to develop our personality and our spouse personality. So, we will become a person who will make our spouse happy, and our spouse become person who will make us happy.
 
ardianto said:
If you come to the lecture because you expect Shaykh will tell you how and where to find perfect man, you will be disappointed. There's no perfect human, Shaykh Assim Al-Hakeem must be knows about it.

I don't know what Shaykh will talk, but I guess, not so different than other lectures, how to build good relationship in marriage, how to develop our personality and our spouse personality. So, we will become a person who will make our spouse happy, and our spouse become person who will make us happy.
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waow! i am not searching for anyone... oh misinterpreted! what I meant was that I have never ever attended live lecture of scholars (May it be on any topic!)
The place where I live in, these lectures do not take place here. None that I know of... I wish the scholars would even come here and give lectures so that the youth would get a bit of guidance.

Wasalaam!
 
ardianto said:
Ooppss, sorry.

I thought everyone who come to this thread wants to talk about marriage and finding a living partner.
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actually I should have seen b4 posting... Its just that it was goin thru my mind since last some days that why don't we have lectures over here though it is the country capital... so I just impulsively replied without checking the background!

wasalaam!
 
If you're a muslim, you want to do good and want to complete half of your deen you would be a fool for 'not searching for anyone'
 
Cbdullahii said:
If you're a muslim, you want to do good and want to complete half of your deen you would be a fool for 'not searching for anyone'
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you stupid so as to call me a fool! (jk) well presently i aint. I have my own priorities. I want to learn Arabic and the Qur'an for instance and about searching... my parents will do that for me :statisfie b'coz my searching on my own would be unacceptable for them... (thats what i think)

wasalaam!
 

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