I WISH I WAS someone else

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Be grateful brother, don't let the Shaytan mess with your head. If your weakness is insecurity, then the Shaytan will use it against you to the fullest. Pray to Allah (swt) & Insa'allah he will send down on you peace & tranquillity & clean your head from these negative thoughts.

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Oh please sister, don't worry about being short, i'm short too and I'm loving it because I'm afraid of heights, lol. Short people are just as good as tall people. Take it from a shorty like me. :statisfie

btw, the thing about being afraid of heights is a joke lol, I love being short because it doesn't stop me from doing anything that I want or need to do, except when I can't reach the coathanger, but thats another story. :)
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oh i didnt mean i h8 bein short lool me wz jus sayin how it went yestdy...wel funny ahem..me luvz bein d baby in d crew lool all d attention lool bt jazakiallah 4 dat newaz
 
Remember that at the end of the day God made you to the best of your ability...you are unique (this is a good thing who wants to be clones ey?:D )
To God you are beautiful, you are intelligent and don't let any1 else tell you different:raging: :thumbs_up
 
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please dont worry. it is the media driven society which makes us dislike ourselves. my dear sister do not worry and be greteful for what Allah has given u . My parents always said dont look at others and feel u should be like them. always looks at people below u. be grateful to allah tala. i have been in the same the situation where i have obessed the way i look and always compared myself to others. Remember that u r an individual , ther is no-one like u in this dunya and universe who looks like u . u r unique and u must try to accept who u r.i know its easier said than done. i sometimes still get a little insecure, but i try to remember that what allah has given me is enough alhamdulliah.
Please check this video on tube ,

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=_ccgbH0YTQA
hope it helps. may Allah give u ease.
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aw be grateful for wt uv got..ppl who r blind want eyes..pplp who r deaf want to hear etcc u get wt im sayin :) be grateful n say alhumdulilah
 
SALAM i cant believe it! I JUST CANT AMANI WOW THAT GIRL LOOKED WAY DIFFERENT that did made me feel better:thumbs_up :thumbs_up
to those who replied what can i say? yes i am selfish at times is beauty everything? MAYBE NOT BUT i truly believe it would make my life better
I envy those sisters who are happy with their looks even though they dont look THAT BEAUTIFUL (Media ideal) i wish i could be like that one day INCLUDE ME IN UR DUAS plxx
 
First of all, just wanna c no1 is ugly, god creation is not ugly.We all r beautiful, some more than others.

And when u say being beautiful will make ur life easy it wont. the trials and tribulations they go through, u wouldn't want them. So be grateful, thankful for how u look, u can see, hear, what more do you want.Beauty don't last.
 
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SALAM! ARGHH i wish i was skinny taller lighter i wish my teeth were better nothin about me stands out i hate ittttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt i wish i was intelligent:laugh::cry: i am probably gonna get attaked for bein shallow ! wouldnt be the 1 time is easier to judge
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Most people feel the way you do but the thing is not let it get you down.

I look in the mirror some days and i wish my nose waz taller my eyes more wide my skin more fair.
Its just natural to think like that.:D

On the other hand somedays i look in the mirror and think hey you could give miss world a run for her money lol

Just accept the way you are.There isnt much you can do.Try being happy in your skin if that dont work try looking at someone who you consider less attractive then yourself and just tell your self at least your better then them.Dont tell them anything though that would be wrong.

Just remeber that there will always be someone better then you and you just cant do anything about it.

JUST ACCEPT WHAT YOU HAVE/WHAT YOU ARE

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Salaam sister always be grateful for everything and i mean EVERYTHING you have (even if its not a lot or not what you want) and always remember that there are others out there that are far worse off then you, e.g. people who are blind, deaf, etc. People who live in poverty or in war zones, are facing much more worse situations than us, ALWAYS THINK OF OTHERS, and the struggles that they may be facing on a daily bases.

The more you Thank Allah the more He gives you. There is nothing wrong wiv being short, im short too, and to be honest, there’s no point in complaining about it coz you cant do anything about it. However if your weight is really getting you down try doing something about it; why not eat healthier and be more active, you can also join a gym, play sports, walk more often etc. Its not impossible you just need to work hard and put effort into it and inshAllah it will be achievable.

also check this nasheed out, it may make you feel better and be more appreciative of what you have that others may not.
Its called forgive me when I whine, by Ahmed Bukhatir

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=_ccgbH0YTQA
 
Some people have been quite harsh on you and its not always vain or shallowness that makes you say these things,no matter what race,religion you are there is always people who think so bad of themselves it destroys their life because they are constantly paranoid,scared,etcabout there appearance.just because u are muslim does not mean u cant dislike ur appearance,wot you should 4get i?Fair enough there are people out there alot worse off,that is a shame but theres nothing this person can do about it and its not gona stop this person feeling down about themselves.There are days i think to myself im this im that why cant this be like that,etc but that does not mean im vain or shallow it means im insecure with myself,feeling low,etc.these feelings make you think that and theres nothing you can do about it. If all that makes sense!!!
 
Why make yourself upset? Look at people less fortunate than you, rather than people who SEEm to have a better life than you. Everything happens for a reason. :)
 
salam
Some people have been quite harsh on you and its not always vain or shallowness that makes you say these things,no matter what race,religion you are there is always people who think so bad of themselves it destroys their life because they are constantly paranoid,scared,etcabout there appearance.just because u are muslim does not mean u cant dislike ur appearance,wot you should 4get i?Fair enough there are people out there alot worse off,that is a shame but theres nothing this person can do about it and its not gona stop this person feeling down about themselves.There are days i think to myself im this im that why cant this be like that,etc but that does not mean im vain or shallow it means im insecure with myself,feeling low,etc.these feelings make you think that and theres nothing you can do about it. If all that makes sense!!!
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THANK YOU! Someone got me! :w:
 
Salaama Alaykum,

I feel the same way sometimes as well! But you have to remember that there are people in the world in far worse shape than you.

Fee Aman Allah..just know that in any given minute, all that is Dunya could be taken away from you. Don't fret about the minuscule things that don't matter when Akhriya comes along. Have peace of mind and be level-headed and always have Allah(SWT) on your mind. It shows strong deen, and will only lead to good things. Everyone has low self-esteem sometimes, and it's only human nature, but just trust in Allah(SWT) and remember him always. :D

W/Salaam
 
^ What Sister-Ameena* said is true ---> "just trust in Allaah(SWT)"

We may not see Allaah (SWT)'s wisdom at first glance...but there's wisdom with all that Allaah (SWT) does...and it's just a matter of trust in Allaah. Sure you may feel bad and may find it hard...but just have patience and put your trust in Allaah.

Us Muslims are not living for the Dunya....it's all for the Aakhirah. :)
 
i do understand what you're going through but what can you actually do?

NOTHING

just accept what you have/what you are

try writing down ur good point and bad points on a piece of paper and then get people who know you to write good and bad points about you

i bet things that you consider bad about your self others dont even see and i bet you have triple the amount of good points as bad.

Plus some bad points you can work on like behaviour this will be really benefical and help you to become a better person

I did this some time ago and things that i thought were bad about me turned out to be things that my family and friends like about me.
 

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