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tigerkhan said:

i have no fear of riya or exposing my sins .with my dear forum members bcz no1 knows my identity here. and i love to share with them
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salaam

I don't know What the advantage of exposing your sins and riya are.
if they have advantages , please tell us.
 
OMG why are u all ppl critisizing me.i am getting hurt by ur words.
ppl can have diffrent approach toward things. eg i am on forum bcz i want to share all which i dont share with anyone. is it wrong ?? i dont think on day of judgement u can bcm witness for sins of tigerkhan bcz there will be no tigerkhan there.

Flame said:
Well, if you show off before forum members, what opinion do you expect us to have of you? Good opinion?

Also, what sort of reputation do you expect to gain for yourself in this forum by exposing your sins? Good reputation?
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since very long i had leave expecting from ppl and all my hope are directly with HIM. so **** care for rep or rep power.

amineh75 said:
if they have advantages , please tell us.
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honestly i tell u, u can deny this is one big advantage, eg if i share some my sin and mistake and what pbms i face bcz of this mistake, surely other will learn a lesson from it and they try to avoid this. u see if we see all threads in Advice and Support forum, there are many threads of girls and boy that they do sin of emotional attachment with opposite gender b4 marriage and u see many of them told there pbm and suffering, so a wise person can take lesson from it.
similarly i blv we should share of good deeds bcz other will also encouraged by this. they also got a aspiration to to good deeds.

i hope its clears, sorry to OP, now be on topic. jazakallah oh khair for ur suggestions.
 
I wish I had a purple blackberry

I wish there could be an end to peoples pain and suffering

I wish I had more knowledge

I wish I was wise and had the ability to make good decisions

I wiiiiisshhh
 
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tigerkhan said:
have no fear of riya or exposing my sins with my dear forum members bcz no1 knows my identity here. and i love to share with them.
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Respected brother, what you are saying is actually rather disturbing. You say that "no1 knows my identity here". But this is not true. We do know who you are. You are tigerkhan. We know you as tigerkhan and what you say in this forum as tigerkhan is being recorded in YOUR Book of Deeds.

On the Day of Judgment, you shall certainly see all the things you said in this forum. Shaytan has deceived you into thinking that you will not be held accountable for what you say in this forum. You definitely will be.

One may not know the true identity of a person who joins this forum. But if this person writes things of benefit to people with the intention of pleasing Allah, don't you think that his deeds would be recorded in his Book of Deeds? Most certainly it would be recorded. This is the reason why many members in this forum post things of benefit to people, with the intention of pleasing Allah.......

To give you just an example.....Brother Hamza81. He has put in a lot of hard work, compiling beneficial information for us and although we do not know his real identity, we can be SURE that Allah certainly KNOWS who he is! That is all that matters in the end. It is sufficient that Allah knows who you are!

It works the other way round as well. If you have told us about your deeds and exposed your sins, we can ask what was your intention in doing so. Was it to gain Allah's pleasure? If you say, yes, it was done for Allah's pleasure, then we cannot believe your claim. Allah is not pleased with anyone who seeks people's applause or admiration. Or anyone who does things to show them what a "good" and "pious" person he is. Good and pious people keep their deeds secret, whether they are good deeds or bad.

I apologize if what I am saying is hurting your feelings. But I do not wish that your deeds be rendered null and void on the Mizan because they lacked sincerity.

May Allah help you and guide you to all that pleases Him. Ameen.
 
thequietone said:
i wish i died a long time ago
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I hope the reason behind saying this is that if you had died a long time ago there is less chance of you straying on the wrong path. If not, then may Allah ease your mind and elevate you from any pain inshAllah, ameen.

I wish that Allah SWT will be merciful enough to grant me the coming the Ramadhan and inshAllah make it beneficial to me and everyone in becoming closer to Allah SWT. Ameen!
 
I hope and pray that Allah (swt) gives me the strength and patience to endure what He has written for me such that I die not but as a Muslim who, insha'Allah, will be found worthy of his chosen name.
 
tigerkhan said:
OMG why are u all ppl critisizing me.i am getting hurt by ur words.
ppl can have diffrent approach toward things. eg i am on forum bcz i want to share all which i dont share with anyone. is it wrong ?? i dont think on day of judgement u can bcm witness for sins of tigerkhan bcz there will be no tigerkhan there.


since very long i had leave expecting from ppl and all my hope are directly with HIM. so **** care for rep or rep power.


honestly i tell u, u can deny this is one big advantage, eg if i share some my sin and mistake and what pbms i face bcz of this mistake, surely other will learn a lesson from it and they try to avoid this. u see if we see all threads in Advice and Support forum, there are many threads of girls and boy that they do sin of emotional attachment with opposite gender b4 marriage and u see many of them told there pbm and suffering, so a wise person can take lesson from it.
similarly i blv we should share of good deeds bcz other will also encouraged by this. they also got a aspiration to to good deeds.

i hope its clears, sorry to OP, now be on topic. jazakallah oh khair for ur suggestions.
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salaam
I think you should read Qur'an an some hadith of our prophet Mohammad ( P.B.U.H) to understand this .
 
I wish Allah would take my loneliness away and that he would make me understand that he is enough for me and that I am never alone as He(S.W.T) will never leave me or forsake me

I really and deeply wish I was a Haafidhaa

I wish that I never ever have the feeling to do any sin and that Allah guides me and keeps me on the right path
 
What is going on in this thread???!!

There are so many beautiful wishes and few... disturbing.
Like this...
thequietone said:
i wish i died a long time ago
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May Ayob said:
I simply wish i died when i was a little girl
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What sorta wishes are those? They can't even come true. When you wish for something, wish it for the future, not to ponder over past. Allah has given you life, and you regret it? You shouldn't try to change the past, or even think about it, cause it's like going against Allah's decisions.

My teacher once told me, not to ever use the 'if' word without mentioning 'God willing or inshaallah.'
We usually say something like this, if I'd been here earlier, this wouldn't have happened.

How can it be? What happened was meant to happen. Nobody can change it. I couldn't have been earlier cause Allah wanted me to be late. Whatever happens, happens for good and has a reason.
Live with it.


I've noticed other wishes...
amineh75 said:
I wish I were a doctor .
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...FLaWeD... said:
I wish I had a purple blackberry

I wish I had more knowledge

I wish I was wise and had the ability to make good decisions
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Abraar said:
I really and deeply wish I was a Haafidhaa
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Why wish for the past, when you know there are no chances of it coming true?
Why use the words, 'had' or 'was'?
Okay, I admit, I too used the 'was' in the beginning. I've changed it now. Actually, I didn't mean it, like many here.

Okay, so here's my advice...
When you wish something, add 'inshaallah' to it. This way, you'd know which is a go go and which is a no go.
Instead of writing, I wish I was a doctor, inshaallah(doesn't fit, huh?); write, I wish I would be a doctor, inshaallah(fits perfectly).

Hope this helps :)
 
I just wish I could figure out who I am and what my purpose here on earth is.

But then that's a common one that has plagued mankind since time began, and therefore probably not worth mentioning.
 

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