['Abd Al-Maajid]

Dear brothers and sisters,
I was wondering what would be the attitude of a believer man or woman towards marriage and what attributes should one be looking in their to be spouses.

 

['Abd Al-Maajid]

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[Ğħαrєєвαħ]

Aslaamu`Alaaykum

Answer to Q: As far as attributes both wife and husband have rights over each other but if im wrong may someone correct me indeed.

When you are in search of a spouse the main things you should look at is the piety of one, whoever is best in the religion indeed.

InshaAllaah this hadeeth helps :

The Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said:

"A man marries a woman for four reasons: for her property, for her rank, for her beauty, and for her religion (and character). So marry the one who is best in the religion and character and prosper".

( Marriage quotation from Bukhari and Muslim)

Insha`Allaah you recieve more advice


Wa`Alaaykum Salaam

 

[N1LOY]

Social behaviors, reputation, characteristics, talents and knowledge of Islam (1st).

 

[Ummu Sufyaan]

wa alaykum us-Salaam
its really up to you. the key to finding the right spouse is knowing what you want by marrying them/by entering a marriage. so ask yourself what do you want from a marriage and what do you want from a wife? balance this up with what you can give and offer to your marriage and spouse because its not right or even of common sense to take and not give.

 

[_Jannah_]

1) Piety
2) Good manners