Aslaamu`Alaaykum
Answer to Q: As far as attributes both wife and husband have rights over each other but if im wrong may someone correct me indeed.
When you are in search of a spouse the main things you should look at is the piety of one, whoever is best in the religion indeed.
InshaAllaah this hadeeth helps :
The Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said:
"A man marries a woman for four reasons: for her property, for her rank, for her beauty, and for her religion (and character). So marry the one who is best in the religion and character and prosper".
( Marriage quotation from Bukhari and Muslim)
Insha`Allaah you recieve more advice
Wa`Alaaykum Salaam