im bak and gues wat im a MUSLIM CAN U BELIVE IT A MUSLIM!!

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ooh thank you all soo much this is soo over welming thank YOU, you guys made my day i owe u soo mcuh and sis ANGEL
THANK YOU
" she jumbs happily up and down"
now all i have to do is to find a way to tel me parents i know it wont be easy but i know Allah is with me now and im not as worried as i was before, now i have faith in Allah and wat he has planned for me
and i thnak u all for welcoming me with open arms
may allah reward you all :)
and i havent thought of chossing a neww name
can i keep my old name or do i have to change?
 
Ashley said:
ooh thank you all soo much this is soo over welming thank YOU, you guys made my day i owe u soo mcuh and sis ANGEL
THANK YOU
" she jumbs happily up and down"
now all i have to do is to find a way to tel me parents i know it wont be easy but i know Allah is with me now and im not as worried as i was before, now i have faith in Allah and wat he has planned for me
and i thnak u all for welcoming me with open arms
may allah reward you all :)
and i havent thought of chossing a neww name
can i keep my old name or do i have to change?
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Hi Ashley

I don't think you have to choose a new name. Many people seem to, but not all.

Good luck with telling your parents. :)

Peace.
 
Ashley said:
gues wat guys

IM A MUSLIM A MUSLIM
ISNT DAT GREAT IM CONVERTED

oki let me start at the begining, its a long stoory so i suggest u relax get a pop-corn and juz listen to me and if i bore u, u can leav da room i dont mind;D ;D ;D juz messin wit ya

anywaz remeber i told u guys dat im not coming bak until i convert wel here is da story

sis Angel pmed me telling me dat if i wanted help i should ask her she gave me her email address since i cant pm anymore cuz im new
anywaz i talked to her and she told me wat bus to take frm dudley to bham and she said dat she will meet me at the bus station and she did ,of corse i didnt know who she was but she had this huge board dat said my name wen i got of the station it was very funny actualy pple were starring at her giving her funny looks but she didnt look bothered,dis one guy asked her why she was holding a board wit some1 's name and she just ignored him ,told him to bugg off ,:giggling: :giggling: u seriously should have seen da guys face soryy being off topic anywaz as i was saying ,she meet and then we talked for a bit then she took me to her house to meet her family ,they were realy nice ,they had beautiful muslim decorations on their walls and muslim posters
her mum cooked us a nice lunch after we ate Angel told her mum why i was here explained my situation to her mum and dad ,they were realy understanding and offere to take me to the nearest most ,gosh bham has soo many muslim populations and alot of beautiful mosques i was amazed
ita realy long but to make a long story short
i converted the iman at the mosques was realy helpful he even oferved to talk wit my folks and make them understand
and sis glo ur right there is alot to islam than juz caling ppl bro and sis
i found out dat its a beautiful religion much much better than any religion i ever known!!
i love praying the five daily prayes i tried it yesterday,my god after praying i felt peace and tranquility i never felt before
i love listening to ppl read da quran, Angel read it for me and mash allah (by the way angel told me wat it means alot of musim words) she can recite beautiful its wayy wayy better than listening to music
i cant read the quran now but i wil learn Angel promised to help me after talkin things with my parents,which by the way i havent realy told them yet
i mean im new at these i have the right to first practice my brand neww religion which i already loveee sooo muchhhhhhhh
u guys are the best u helped me become a muslim and opened my eyes to a beautiful religion THANK U THANK U i dont think i can ever thank u guys enough "she sniffs":cry: im sorry its juz i feel beautiful and clean inside after accepting islam thank u alll
and thank u sister Angel for helping me ,for doing all that stuff for me thank u
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Assalaamu Alaykum sister Ashley,

Welcome the deen (way of life) called islam, may Allah make your life as a muslim blessed and help you become one of the best of muslims!

Sister angel, you did one of the best deeds a muslim can do and now you need to stick by our new sister as much as you can though thick and thin and help her in any way you can.

Assalaamu Alaykum,
Daw’ud
 
Asalamulaikum

Oh wow! Subhanallah, God is so great. he guided u to the truth, ur the chosen one to enter paradise! Inshallah.

Welcome to the truth sister, may u find peace and may Allah swt guide ur family as well and keep u firm on the straight path ameen.

Sis Angel. I envy u, May Allah swt reward u and ur family abundantly ameen and may he help us to take heed from what u did so that we can all spread the deen ameen.

We are all here for u sister Ashley if u ever need anything. Inshallah u shud be able to apply to get into the sisters section as thats far better.

Take care and Inshallah hear from ur soon,

Nafeesa xxx
 
Dawud_uk said:
Sister angel, you did one of the best deeds a muslim can do and now you need to stick by our new sister as much as you can though thick and thin and help her in any way you can.

Daw’ud
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I agree!
Bringing somebody to a new faith is just the first step (and perhaps the easiest one). Growing and maturing into a faith is much harder and will need much support from other believers!

Peace.
 
congrats! beautiful story.
i hope you all teh best sis, as mentioned above if you need any advice or just someone to talk to you know where we are! good luck and God bless!
 
salam 2 my sweet loving :brother: :sister: in islam

oki umm remember i told u guys dat i useed to be baad and dat i used to have boyfriend wel i brok up with him because its haram but da problem is he wont leave me alone and my friends keeep nagging me and even my parents they keep saying "wats happened honey i tought u two were serously in love why did u break up with da poor boy he is soo heartbroken and u two have been going together for soo long" it annoys me soo baad and my freinds are da worse they keep saying " how could u do this to him , he loves u soo much" and worst of all him da guy he follows me about and wont leave me alone one time he asked me "wat did i do why did u break up with me, i want u bak and im not gonaa give up until ur mine"

i feel as if i have been split in every dirrection:heated: ,everyones nagging me from evey where there is no where to go!!, i cant tell them da truth not yet i have to be first used to being a muslim and then maybe tel eveyone. but now i dont kno wat to do, sometimes i feel i just wana crawl away and hide frome every one
they are annoying me so much , i know im asking too much but u guys are the only ones who understand me and know wat im going through plz if u can give me ur wonderful advices once again i would be more than haappy

wasalam
 
wa alykum as-Salaam warahmatulahi wabarakatuh.


Don't worry sister, because this is only a trial or a test from Allaah Almighty to see how sincere and serios you are about islam.


Allaah Almighty says:

On no soul do We place a burden greater than it can bear: before Us is a record which clearly shows the truth: they will never be wronged. (23:62)​


So Allaah won't burden you with more than you can bear, so stay patient and keep your trust in Allaah. Keep making lots of prayer to Allaah, to protect you from the evil of the boy and others, to make it easier for you to explain and for others to accept that you have returned to the religion you were born in (Islam.)



Our beloved Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:

" Wondrous are the believer's affairs. For him there is good in all his affairs, and this is so only for the believer. When something pleasing happens to him, he is grateful, and that is good for him; and when something displeasing happens to him, he is enduring/patient (sabar), and that is good for him " (sahih Muslim)​




Keep remembering Allaah Almighty through the easy times, and as much as you possibly can.

Allaah Almighty says:

Then do ye remember Me; I will remember you. Be grateful to Me, and reject not Faith. (2:152)​



Try to stay away from the boy as much as you possibly can, make lots of dua' (supplication/prayer) for Allaah to help you.


And for those who fear Allah, He (ever) prepares a way out, (65:2)

And He provides for him from (sources) he never could imagine. And if any one puts his trust in Allah, sufficient is (Allah) for him. For Allah will surely accomplish his purpose: verily, for all things has Allah appointed a due proportion. (65:3)

And:

That is the Command of Allah, which He has sent down to you: and if any one fears Allah, He will remove his ills, from him, and will enlarge his reward. (Qur'aan 65:05)
​



If you remember Allaah through easy times, Allaah will remember you through hard times. So keep remembering and praising Allaah:

[by reciting subhan Allaah (glory be to Allaah) , Alhamdulillah (all praise is to Allaah) , Laa illaaha illAllaah (there is none worthy of worship except Allaah) , Allaahu akbar (Allaah is the greatest)]



The Prophet (peace be upon him) said that Allaah Almighty said: “I am with the thinking of the slave when he thinks of Me and I am with him when he remembers Me.” (Bukhari and Muslim)


Dua' (supplication/prayer) is the best weapon of the believer and you should keep up with this continuously, because you will be rewarded for it alot. Also try staying away from the people who cause trouble and if you feel that you're not ready to tell anyone that you're muslim - that may be ok. But keep asking Allaah to make things easier for you, and so that you are safe from the harm of others.


If you have any questions or didn't understand what i said, please don't be afraid to ask.



Allaah Almighty knows best.



Peace.​
 
Ashley said:
salam 2 my sweet loving :brother: :sister: in islam

oki umm remember i told u guys dat i useed to be baad and dat i used to have boyfriend wel i brok up with him because its haram but da problem is he wont leave me alone and my friends keeep nagging me and even my parents they keep saying "wats happened honey i tought u two were serously in love why did u break up with da poor boy he is soo heartbroken and u two have been going together for soo long" it annoys me soo baad and my freinds are da worse they keep saying " how could u do this to him , he loves u soo much" and worst of all him da guy he follows me about and wont leave me alone one time he asked me "wat did i do why did u break up with me, i want u bak and im not gonaa give up until ur mine"

i feel as if i have been split in every dirrection:heated: ,everyones nagging me from evey where there is no where to go!!, i cant tell them da truth not yet i have to be first used to being a muslim and then maybe tel eveyone. but now i dont kno wat to do, sometimes i feel i just wana crawl away and hide frome every one
they are annoying me so much , i know im asking too much but u guys are the only ones who understand me and know wat im going through plz if u can give me ur wonderful advices once again i would be more than haappy

wasalam
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:sl:
Just tell him that you have become a Muslim, and that Islam forbids extramarital relations. Do your parents know that you're a Muslim yet?
:w:
 
Ashley said:
no bro they dont thata da whole thing
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:sl:
You should get Angel to come to your house, and stand with her as she tells your parents. It will be easier on you that way, I know it's hard to tell your parents, but you need to sometime. You are very fortunate to have a Muslim friend who is willing to take you into her home and teach you, and I'm sure that she will help you tell your parents, and help you if things go wrong.
:w:
 
I agree sis ashley, you need to tell everyone... thats part of the shahada.. to have witnesses while you accept Islam.

You have Allah on your side... nothing can harm you. Have faith in him and Inshalah he'll guide you through this..

Besides... lying only requires you to lie more to cover up the previous lie. And when your parents find out you lied... what about trust. It's better to tell them.. and your friends so they respect you for your beliefs... and then you'll know if they truly are your friends or not..

Have sister angel with you to tell your parents is a good idea.. .because you're still learning Islam and you might come across question you may not know the answers to.. and sis angel can help you inshallah :)

May Allah keep you strong, Inshallah.

W'salaamz,
Hamid
 
of corse i wil help you sis Ash if you want me to
im always there for u sis u kno dat
dont worry if u wana tel ur parents and ur scared i will get my parents to tel them if u want to, at least dats better than a teenage girl they hardly know to barge in their house and start expalining 2 them things they have no idea, they will tel me to get da hell outa deir house:giggling: :giggling:
its better if a grown person does it ,then they wil take it serously
i will talk to my parents Ash dont worry they will help sis:)
juz leave every thing to me
 
:sl:

Masha'Allaah sister, congratulations!

I did not know about your story before this, but I am very happy for you, Alhamdulillah. May Allaah increase you in faith and knowledge, Aameen.

:w:
 

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