Im confused about a few things

[RisingLight]

but it has already been written in the preserved tablet... thats the thing. It is already written, we are thought to believe that it was dua that changed your qadr, but in reality, it was already meant to be, and God just made "dua"and excuse for us.

Indeed it was your duaa that changed the Qadr,don’t think of it differently please.Look if you are 20 years old now for example and I meet you at 80 years old and make a biography for you,and then send it back in time when you are 20 years old.You would still have free will,you would still make your own choices and try to change your future,but for someone in the future,you have already tried to change the future,you have already chosen with your free will and already done your choice.In the book it is already written what you will do because it is from the future.

So if you make a duaa now that you get married for example,for the one in the future who sees you married,they already know youd make duaa and get married.But if he came back in the past and tell you that,youd say oh I thought it was cuz of my duaa that I was married,but it is already written,when actually it was indeed cuz of your duaa.

Its hard for us to understand because we are so limited,but if everything is written and we are living here for nothing with no choice whatever,that would be very unfair,and it contradicts to the fact that Allah is the most Just,so just believe that duaa can really change qadr and keep making duaa.

 

[wayfarer91]

You are right brother,. one more thing that occurred to me is that we take time as linear. Our idea of time is different than tht of Allah's.