I'm sex repulsed and I don't want to engage in a relationship EVER, how to make my family understand?

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Sorry if the topic is heavy, I would like to ask advice on how to tell my family that I don't want to engage in a relationship ever and that the mere idea of sex makes me repulsed. I can't get into a relationship knowing that I don't want to me intimate. I won't and I won't ever be, end of story. I have no desire for that so I won't be falling into sin due to repression. I'm very happy with the idea of just growing old near my parents and eventually taking care of them at their old age. I just need the right words to make them understand.
 
I understand your concern W.R.T your health (as a I am person of medical Background) this is called Sexual Aversion Disorder (SAD). I think you should consult a Good Doctor as per your parents guide. As far as this issue is concerned I think you are just worried due to some other reason/trauma, if you solve that then InshaAllah you can get over this. May Allah Guide Us All.
 
Your feelings are completely valid, and you deserve to live in a way that aligns with your personal happiness. When talking to your family, clarity and confidence will be key—letting them know this isn’t a phase or repression but a genuine and deeply held part of who you are. Emphasizing that you’ve thought this through and that your fulfillment comes from other aspects of life, like family and personal growth, may help them understand.
 
O God! To You and before You, I testify to You and and before You that there is no other god besides You and I believe that You Alone and Only is God, I testify to You that I believe in Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and that he is Your Prophet, I testify to You that I believe in the Quran and that the Quran is from You, none are worthy of worship except You, all praise is due to You Alone, all glory belongs to You, to You is our certain return, You are the King and Lord and Ruler and God of the heavens and the earth and all things in them and all things in between them and all things underground them!
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I agree, boyfriend and girlfriend relationships and marrying relationships are, for me, a.waste of time.

I shall never, for the rest of my life, get with a woman in a relationship or lay with her, nor have children with her.

Not because there is something bad about it, actually it's Sunnah, but God has other plans for my life, my entire life has been pre-ordained by God, until now, and I know, a woman and children is not part of it.

I am already in a relationship; with God.

My entire rest of my life on this earth will be about worshipping and praising God.

And getting a place in Paradise after my death here on this earth.

I have no time for a woman or child. I have greater.(much greater) things to do.

God is the Greatest.

To God is our Absolutely Certain return.
 

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