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I am totally in love in with a muslim brother and would like to marry him. we were in a pre-marital relationhsip for 2 years and now we do not talk and i am scared he will marry someone else. I would really like to be his wife and do it properly but we do not talk anymore and i am scared he is with someone else.

im am prayin my heart and soul out that we can marry

Please do not tell me to move on :cry:
 
im afraid to tell you that if you want to be serene and achieve serenity you have to move on it was a haram relationship you must now run the opposite direction
 
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if you really want to marry him than why not speak with your family?
 
yes but i want to marry him and do things islamically - so whats the harm in that :cry:

this is causin me severe depression :cry:
 
because we argued so much towards the end and it broke off ..but i know allah can change a person's heart right if we are good for each other's deen Allah can Will it right???
 
whoah...


mayb u shud just talk 2 ur parents about marryin him?
 
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because we argued so much towards the end and it broke off ..but i know allah can change a person's heart right if we are good for each other's deen Allah can Will it right???
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if he wants to marry u.. n u wanna marry him... wats the problem? i just dont see it.



just wait till your both ready (can afford a marriage/have a place to stay) n get married
 
My Mum knows .. and she is willin to have his family come round and do it properly - the thing is me and him dont talk anymore and he is so cold he doesnt even talk to me :cry:

is it worth doin istikara?
 
^ look i'll tell u this!

if his a good muslim brother the ONLY REASON he wont talk to you is coz it KILLS HIM inside to even try ! ( he thinks too much about being a good muslim/family etc etc) trust me about this !


get his family around - if he means that much to you give it a go !

you wont regret it trust me!



but you really should ask someone to ask him... just to get confirmation i guess
 
Does that brother have a sister or anything? you may wanna ask them about how he feels.
 
I cant even get hold of him And he has been cold to me and told me not to ever ring him so ive respected his wishes :(
 
I dont feel like he feels the same way anymore ..but i cant seem to move on .. makes no sense to me its driving me crazy :(

I have repented a lot and do regret it .. and now im willin to go the right path - but he doesnt want me to be his other half i guess what can i do :cry:
 
^ hmm dont contact him.


just find out what he wants (via his family) - and act on that.

you can do that right?




i'll tell you not to read too much into him being cold because im pretty sure every sister whos not related out there thinks im pretty cold ( i wont even say hi/salam unless im forced to respond). lifes just easier that way
 
heh... nah if u cant approach this practically then get through it patiently


thats my final advice...
 
Allah is my only hope i will continue to pray and make dua - whatever Allah Wills - Allah knows best.

Remember me in your dua

W salaam
 
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i cant go on with my life without him :cry:
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that frankly speaking is hype you've reached this far without his companionship so what prevents you from going that bit longer and forgetting him at last
stay strong sister
 
Yes ok i can live without him but i really dont want to. i will never give up on my dua for us to be together, i know allah will do what is best for us and our deen.
 
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