You can call me whatever you like

If you are in the U.S I am certain that you can have a doctor who is from your country, also most hospitals provide a translator service so you can be free from that responsibility if it bothers you. If she is fifty, she will need more than one screening test as mentioned above a baseline colonoscopy is started at 50, a mammogram at 40 and if you have recently moved into the country in all likelihood a PPD as well ...
No one cares if they die, until they are on their death bed me thinkus :hmm:
I think I am going to try to sleep now and salvage some of my sanity, though we might have guests in a couple of hours insha'Allah