is it haram for ladies/girls to go out with their girlfriends?

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Light of Heaven said:
Sometimes I wonder why some bros think the woman should be inside 24/7, secluded...hmm. You try starin at the walls all day :D lol.

Anyway I've been in the habit of being home since day one. For me it's uni then home all the time, unless my family goes out...never done hung outs except once in high school...and only for like 2 hrs max..
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staring at the walls all day?

well, our mothers and grandmothers used to stay @ home most of the time, did they spent their life staring the wall?
 
theres more to do then stair at the wall, whos gonna clean that stack of dishes? hmmm? not me... :skeleton: lol joke :thumbs_up

I think the sisters should be allowed out if the company of sisters is good not entirely sure tho, you can't keep them locked up in the house, gotta let them roam around like free range chickens, not the caged ones because they have thin egg shells that crack easily! do you want a baby that cracks easily i think not!
 
ahmed_indian said:
staring at the walls all day?

well, our mothers and grandmothers used to stay @ home most of the time, did they spent their life staring the wall?
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Agreed



Heck im a boy and i stay at home most of the time unless i go to the masjid or do a chore.


subhanAllah... what do sisters want these days?
 
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Women are human too; women need friends and company as well as men. If I want to go over my friend's house, that would require me to "go out". If she wants to come over, that requires her to "go out". What is wrong with that?

If we want to go grab a coffee at a shop, talk and catch up, how is that harmful? The mood strikes you to go some place new, see new things, or just take a walk in the park, it is important for some people, like me. I can't stay in my house 24/7(even when I get married!), you need activities and hobbies in life; and don't answer me "Islam is what you should be doing",because Islam is a way of life, you practice Islam in every little action that you take each day.

When I get married, Insh'Allah he won't expect me to be 100 % depended on him. I like the idea that, if I need something, I can hop in the car and go get it myself, without being asked 100 questions. Sure he should know what's going on with you, but you expect that of him too.

In the end I think its an issue of intention & trust;and not literally "going out" or staying in.

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Fighting4Iman said:
Heck im a boy and i stay at home most of the time unless i go to the masjid or do a chore.


subhanAllah... what do sisters want these days?
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There are men who're content with that... And there are those who aren't.

Similarly, there are sisters who are more than happy to stay indoors and not go out. And there are those who prefer to go out, have some fun... And have a life.

I don't agree with that... Life can be equally fun reading a book or watching anime. But I just felt like defending the sisters who like to go out. It's not so bad going out once in a while. It helps you understand the community. And that's what my parents taught me. But I don't believe it. v_v
 
houda~ said:
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In the end I think its an issue of intention & trust;and not literally "going out" or staying in.

:w:
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I think you said it well sister. It is all about trust. While women are to be keepers of the home, we also can have a place in the public domain. I as a Christian look at 2 Scriptures chapters that describe a wife. Proverbs 31 shows that the woman while keeper of her home she also goes out and conducts buisness pertaining to the home. Titus 2 says that women are to be keepers of the home among other things.
It really is about trust. A Godly woman who conducts herself as such and has her priorties in order going out into public should not cause her husband any concearn if he trusts her. It works the other way around too. If either husband or wife starts spending too much time away from home and neglecting family and marital obligations there can develope problems. That is when trust can be lost. It is all about balancing home and public life.
 
Girls nowadays are geting too much freedom, im not saying keep em locked at home,

but we all got eyes and we can slowly see whats gonna happen in the future.

staying out late, e.t.c. im not talkin bout practising girls
 
nightstar said:
Girls nowadays are geting too much freedom, im not saying keep em locked at home,

but we all got eyes and we can slowly see whats gonna happen in the future.

staying out late, e.t.c. im not talkin bout practising girls
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yh they turn into who*res and become trials for non practising muslim boys
 
Allah says: “And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance” [al-Ahzaab 33:33].

The Prophet (saaws) said: “Woman is ‘awrah, and if she goes out, the shaytaan raises his hopes (of misguiding her). She is never closer to Allaah than when she stays in her house.” [Narrated by Ibn Hibbaan and Ibn Khuzaymah; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Shaheehah, no. 2688]
 

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