Is it permissible to stop going to jummah and the mosque because of fitnah?

['Abdullah]

Cheer up brother, this time will pass inshallah. We all love you and are giving you our opinions because we care about you. If we said anything hurtful then I ask for your forgiveness.

Jazak Allah Khair

 

[Eric H]

Greetings and peace be with you Studentofdeed;

May Allah bless you with the wisdom and the courage to do his will, may Allah bless you with a peace that surpasses all understanding.

Eric

 

[Ümit]

Jazakallah khayran for everyone who replied but I'm not going to say anything anymore. I'm in the position where any small thing could blow me up. The last thing I want to do is state something horrible and make kufr statements. I do not need people looking down on me in this forum and accusing me of riya and calling me mentally ill over again.

Selamun aleykum brother,

I am sure no one is accusing you of anything. people who spoke about riya or mental illness just chose wrong words to describe your situation. They just want to understand what you are going through. I am sure no one used those words deliberately to offend you. We are here to help you, and give you good advise...not to look down on you.
so please forgive us if one of us said something wrong. we Do appreciate that you are sharing your story with us.

 

[Ahmed.]

Brother rather than focus on marraige, you should focus on healing, as you should think, if you ask anyone to assist you in marraige or give their daughters to you you would be an object of derision as no one wants to give their daughters in marraige to mentally ill people. So you should take a couple of years to heal first and not be so desperate to marry now

I think part of the mockery and taunts towards you is for this reason, they might be incensed that you're seeking their daughters while being so obviously? mentally ill

 

[taha_]

I think part of the mockery and taunts towards you is for this reason, they might be incensed that you're seeking their daughters while being so obviously? mentally ill

Assalam o Alaikum rahamutullahi wa barkuthu.

Please don't call him that, he is being hurt. Instead, be gentle with him, and not use words that can be hurtful. He already said this

I do not need people looking down on me in this forum and accusing me of riya and calling me mentally ill over again.

JazakAllah khair

Not you brother Umit, i was talking about brother studentofdeed's quote

 

[Ahmed.]

Assalam o Alaikum rahamutullahi wa barkuthu.

Please don't call him that, he is being hurt. Instead, be gentle with him, and not use words that can be hurtful. He already said this



JazakAllah khair

Not you brother Umit, i was talking about brother studentofdeed's quote

Oh sorry I never read his post. But I don't see why he should feel hurt as he is telling us this himself in so many words.

 

[Ahmed.]

[MENTION=43429]Studentofdeed[/MENTION]

For a cure to your problems, there needs to be a diagnosis, you shouldn't feel bad about the diagnosis.