Like a lot of the 'fringe' questions where there's not a lot of clear directives to consider, I always go back to the real intention of doing, or wanting to do whatever it is. What IS the intention. Don't kid yourself.
If you are uncertain and feel not right, then leave it. That is waswas.
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Assalaamu alaikum Asha,
(smile) This question about makeup pops up quite often. Basically, I think it's important to look at what cosmetics do. Then it becomes easier to answer the question of should we wear it.
Essentially, by making your eyes appear larger, and making your cheeks and lips redder, cosmetics simulate sexual arousal in a woman. They also make a woman look younger, healthier and more fertile, traits that other women admire (twinkle. And we do like to compare well with other women!)… but also traits that are sexually attractive to men.
So my question to you Asha would be: knowing that wearing cosmetics make you look like you are sexually aroused… would you want to go out looking like this? Or would you prefer only your husband see you in this state? And do you want to attract men in general to you… or just your husband?
Unless the cosmetics themselves are harmful, either to you or to an another (such as an unborn or breastfed child… and some substances can be harmful- be careful), I don't think that the products themselves are haraam. But just as sexuality is limited in Islam to marital partners, so I personally believe that the use of sexual enhancers such as cosmetics should be limited to our marital partners.
(smile) I hope this helps you.
May Allah, the Guide to the Right Path, Help us to make choices that are Pleasing to Him.
Assalaamu alaikum ZZZ,
Mmm… I'm assuming that you think the creams are impure because of the urea? Because urea is one of the components of urine? But, you know, urea can be synthesized (and I believe it generally is from artificial synthesis that urea is made for industrial uses). Furthermore, I believe that it is human urine which is that which is impure for us and causes us to need to wash it off before we can pray. (smile) And I think it highly unlikely that human urine would be used to manufacture creams!
Furthermore, urea is naturally produced by our bodies to help keep our skin healthy. (smile) This is one reason we put it in creams. http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/skin-and...tensive-10-per-cent-urea-treatment-cream.html Are our skins impure? (smile) Also, we can find various salts in urine. And water. Are these substances therefore impure?
I found this fatwa on urea, if you are interested: http://www.islamweb.net/emainpage/index.php?page=showfatwa&Option=FatwaId&Id=44692
(smile) Thank you for bringing this up; it is an interesting point to consider, and may be one that many people have wondered about.
May Allah, the Designer, Bless those who seek to Please Him.
Yes it is haram. Makeup and jewellery, vain adornments and silk clothing is forbidden. Think Taliban not Times Square prostitute and you will be ok.
If you want to dress up for your husband and use halal cosmetics, then it's not haram. I actually think it's encouraged.
Lot's of girls I know wear make up to parties, weddings (gender separated), etc, but they wear niqab to cover.
Yes it is haram. Makeup and jewellery, vain adornments and silk clothing is forbidden. Think Taliban not Times Square prostitute and you will be ok.
It was narrated from Abu Musa that :
The Messenger of Allah [SAW] said: "Gold and silk have been permitted for the females of my Ummah, and forbidden to the males."
أَخْبَرَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ الْحُسَيْنِ الدِّرْهَمِيُّ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الأَعْلَى، عَنْ سَعِيدٍ، عَنْ أَيُّوبَ، عَنْ نَافِعٍ، عَنْ سَعِيدِ بْنِ أَبِي هِنْدٍ، عَنْ أَبِي مُوسَى، أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ " أُحِلَّ الذَّهَبُ وَالْحَرِيرُ لإِنَاثِ أُمَّتِي وَحُرِّمَ عَلَى ذُكُورِهَا " .
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If you want to dress up for your husband and use halal cosmetics, then it's not haram. I actually think it's encouraged.
Lot's of girls I know wear make up to parties, weddings (gender separated), etc, but they wear niqab to cover.
In what context is this hadith? As it seems to contradict the Quran. Does it mean in private to please the husband, but surely not public like a decadent pagan?
Assalaamu alaikum Asha,
(smile) This question about makeup pops up quite often. Basically, I think it's important to look at what cosmetics do. Then it becomes easier to answer the question of should we wear it.
Essentially, by making your eyes appear larger, and making your cheeks and lips redder, cosmetics simulate sexual arousal in a woman. They also make a woman look younger, healthier and more fertile, traits that other women admire (twinkle. And we do like to compare well with other women!)… but also traits that are sexually attractive to men.
So my question to you Asha would be: knowing that wearing cosmetics make you look like you are sexually aroused… would you want to go out looking like this? Or would you prefer only your husband see you in this state? And do you want to attract men in general to you… or just your husband?
Unless the cosmetics themselves are harmful, either to you or to an another (such as an unborn or breastfed child… and some substances can be harmful- be careful), I don't think that the products themselves are haraam. But just as sexuality is limited in Islam to marital partners, so I personally believe that the use of sexual enhancers such as cosmetics should be limited to our marital partners.
(smile) I hope this helps you.
May Allah, the Guide to the Right Path, Help us to make choices that are Pleasing to Him.
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