i'd say it is not -
here's why:
42. Remember ye were on the hither side of the valley, and they on the farther side, and the caravan on lower ground than ye.
Even if ye had made a mutual appointment to meet, ye would certainly have failed in the appointment:
But (thus ye met), that Allah might accomplish a matter already enacted;
that those who died might die after a clear Sign (had been given), and those who lived might live after a Clear Sign (had been given). And verily Allah is He Who heareth and knoweth (all things).
Quran 8:42
every experience in your life is something you will learn of take from - you won't know why or how, but as brother eric gave the example of the driver, if you forget that there's another force out there - then yes - you will see it as coincidence, otherwise you will know that there is a guiding light.
when the disbelievers would see the miracles of the Prophets (pbut) or the prophecies coming to pass - they would call them "magicians" or describe the events as "magic"
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51:52 Even so there came no messenger unto those before them but they said: A wizard or a madman! |
51:53 Have they handed down (the saying) as an heirloom one unto another ? Nay, but they are people transgressing all bounds. |
they dismissed these stupefying events light-heartedly in order to mislead the people - but it will be said to them on the day of judgement when they are burning in the fire:
11. Then woe that Day to those that treat (Truth) as Falsehood;-
12. That play (and paddle) in shallow trifles.
13. That Day shall they be thrust down to the Fire of Hell, irresistibly.
14. "This:, it will be said, "Is the Fire,- which ye were wont to deny!
15. "Is this then magic, or is it ye that do not see?
16. "Burn ye therein: the same is it to you whether ye bear it with patience, or not: Ye but receive the recompense of your (own) deeds."
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imagine the looks on their faces - magic fire hurts!
personally - i am CERTAIN that it's all known beforehand - but the reason for meeting the person may be just passing by and saying hello - or a life-changing event.
we don't know which parts Almighty God has controlled completely and which parts he has allowed to happen. but we can be sure that He is the ultimate planner.
or the prophecies regarding the end times would be senseless - since each small event contributes towards the change in direction for generations to come. like ripples from a stone in the water.
eg - you met a girl by coincidence who you ended up marrying - a few generations down the line - the world will be totally different simply due to that fact that those descendants are making positive or negative contributions to humanity at large.
or the fact that hagar ran from safa to marwa looking for water in a barren valley - then the last Prophet was born from her progeny, now almost a quarter of the earth's population follow in her footsteps and live their lives according to his teachings, this has made the geographical, political, and economical situation completely different from what would have happened if one man didn't wlak to a desolate barren valley and leave his bondwoman and child there.
coincidence??? maybe - but i'm sure you'll agree that there's more to it than meets the eye.
