When it comes to how non-Muslims feel about Muslims I have a bigger lens in many respects than you do.
Tell me how? Because I haven't been a Muslim for very long but as soon as I entered into this faith the way people treated me changed drastically and not always in a good way. I've been a non-Muslim for a lot longer than I have been a Muslim so I don't see how your lens is any "larger" than mine in many respects.
Yet you make sweeping generalizations about the non-Muslim Americans. You cannot have it both ways.
I did not make a sweeping generalization about non-Muslim Americans. So because I'm telling you that many Muslim American women that I know and have talked to, even before I entered into Islam, do worry about the negative attitudes that non-Muslims might have toward them in this country, that automatically means that I think that every person who is not a Muslim in America has a negative attitude toward non-Muslims and a "high level of hatred"? I'm talking about reality here, not old poll results.
I think you're getting me confused with some other posts that you read on this forum. Would it kill you to consider that everything in this world isn't as black and white as you want it to be?
Where did I say it was a "high degree of hatred"? I've said that on the 9/11 anniversary walking out of your house and being met with hateful stares isn't exactly fun and most of those experiences I mentioned above didn't happen to me by the way but to other Muslim women that I know. I said if anything many Americans might be uncertain about how to feel about Muslim Americans and that when many Muslim women walk outside of their homes we don't always expect to be greeted with smiles and courtesy but that doesn't mean I think that all non-Muslims hate us. I just don't think a majority of people in American have a "favorable" view of Muslims. I have had experiences of where non-Muslim Americans have treated me with respect and dignity outside of my family but I've also had many experiences where people have not, including law enforcement, and so have other sisters that I know. Just because they don't make it into the news or no one asks those questions for polls doesn't mean it doesn't happen. This is life.
If this hatred existed in the levels that you claim then there would be no way it could hide from me, yet I see and hear none of it.
Yes, because you seem to think that you know and see everything and if it doesn't happen around you, it's not a valid concern. Please, get off the high horse and try and understand another perspective for just one moment. I don't think many Muslim women or Muslims in general confide in you about their deepest concerns in this life and things that worry them about the future on a regular basis.
Tell me, who do you think most non-Muslim Americans would be most honest with when speaking about Muslims, you or myself?
Me. Because when I am out in public or in classes at the university and they have questions about Muslims, they ask me. Why? Because I am a Muslim. And a lot of times they begin with "Sorry, I don't meant to offend you but I've always wondered why..." And if I can answer the questions they have, I do. And I thank them for asking me, instead of someone like you who is far from a scholar of Islam and I am not either but I think I know what it's like to be a Muslim much more than you do and I know what it's like to be a Muslim woman in America which is something that you will never know.
I'm glad that you think the community that you live in is very caring and kind to Muslims and that's wonderful. But I'm just letting you know that these feelings of acceptance are not as widespread as you think. If everything was so "favorable", organizations like CAIR wouldn't have to exist in this country and constantly try to decry the mistakes that Muslims make in the Middle East by holding press conferences that only get 2 seconds of coverage on local news stations...or none at all.
As I said in the last post, we have a long way to go.