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does anyone know if it haraam to pull ones hair out of anger and frustration. please provide evidence.
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So long as you don't tear out your scalp and bleed to death, I don't see the harm.
 
it's definately not a commendable thing... the hadith is clear about it:

"He is not from our group who slaps his checks, tears his clothes and cries in the manner of the people of jahiliyyah." (Sahih Bukhari)

All the authentic jurists are unanimous on the point that the mourning of this type is impermissible. Even Sayyidna Husain, Radi-Allahu anhu, shortly before his demise, had advised his beloved sister Sayyidah Zainab, Radi-Allahu anha, at not to mourn over his death in this manner. He said, "My dear sister! I swear upon you that in case I die you shall not tear your clothes, nor scratch your face, nor curse anyone for me or pray for your death." (Al-Kamil, ibn Kathir vol. 4 pg. 24)
 
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is this hadith exclusive to the death of someone or in general.
Because this person what frustrated over some homework! does that still count?
jazakalllahu khair
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salams sis

hehe i think the first hadith is general... but i guess if they done it without knowledge Allah will forgive them inshalah...

tearing hair out doesn't help, it just makes you more concentrationless and lose more cells ;)

salamz
 
maryam11 said:
:sl: brothers and sisters
does anyone know if it haraam to pull ones hair out of anger and frustration. please provide evidence.
jazakallahu khair
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we all understand that our bodies are emanah to us from Allah. He has entrusted these bodies to us, not so we can harm them or hurt ourselves sis...harming any part of ur body is breaking the trust of Allah...so i guess, yeah in a really twisted n mild sort of way it is haraam...but u wud have to be a critical thinker to observe it in the way i have...some people may disagree with me...

take care sis...maybe we can also help wit ur homework???:D
 
PiNk_n_PoSh said:
why wud u wanna pull ya hair out anyways???? :rollseyes Theres other ways 2 let out ya anger without hurtin yaself.....like hurtin SUM1 ELSE :D LOL
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lool, i thoguth posh people where too good to get around others let alone hit/hurt them ;D
 
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doesnt the hadith say if youre standing when youre angry sit down, and if youre sitting lie down? and also make wudu

better than hitting brothers!
 
Is it haraam to pull someone else's hair out when you're angry?

...That was a joke.
 
lolwatever said:
it's definately not a commendable thing... the hadith is clear about it:

"He is not from our group who slaps his checks, tears his clothes and cries in the manner of the people of jahiliyyah." (Sahih Bukhari)

All the authentic jurists are unanimous on the point that the mourning of this type is impermissible. Even Sayyidna Husain, Radi-Allahu anhu, shortly before his demise, had advised his beloved sister Sayyidah Zainab, Radi-Allahu anha, at not to mourn over his death in this manner. He said, "My dear sister! I swear upon you that in case I die you shall not tear your clothes, nor scratch your face, nor curse anyone for me or pray for your death." (Al-Kamil, ibn Kathir vol. 4 pg. 24)
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:sl: brothers and sistres.
does this mean that this person is not muslim. what happens if this person forgot, then whilst they are in this state, remebered and then stopped?
jazakallalhu khair
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Salams sis

There's degrees of disbelief, not all forms take one out of religion (for example, murder is regarded as kufr, but it is much less than say.. ascribing partners to Allah)

and if the person is ignorant, inshalah they will be forgiven and they should be informed of their mistake.

take care all the bes :)
salamz
 

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