is this permissible.

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Is it permissble for a girl/girls family to look into a potential husband/his family,and all that jazz for her daughter, WITHOUT the knowledge of the girls WALI.

For eg girl is interested in guy, girl talks to female family members (eg mum, sisters), they talk to others (just people in general) to gather info about the guy/his family, etc WITHOUT the knowledge of the girls WALI.
 
asalam alaikum wr wb,

Islam permits asking about the individual's character and behavior, and looking out for your best interest in general. It doesn't matter who does this or whether anyone objects to it. The fact is that it's allowed.


wa alaikum asalam wr wb.
 
basically im wondering if my wali has to know that im 'researching' about him.

i mean obviously im gna tell my wali eventually, but does he have to know that im looking into his background, etc :)
 
Is it permissble for a girl/girls family to look into a potential husband/his family,and all that jazz for her daughter, WITHOUT the knowledge of the girls WALI.

For eg girl is interested in guy, girl talks to female family members (eg mum, sisters), they talk to others (just people in general) to gather info about the guy/his family, etc WITHOUT the knowledge of the girls WALI.

I think you should look up in Islamic books for this kind of knowledge.Or a more practical solution is to look at http://www.questionsonislam.com/
You can ask this site anything about Islamic living.
 

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