Ishtikhara for Marriage

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Salaam brothers and sisters

Last she sends me a message saying , Do you really want me hassan and reply back with messages telling her the reason's why i want her and want to spend my life with her.

she replys back with a message saying she's speachless and lost for words .

And then she ask's me what my mum thinks of us and i tell her my mum loves her to bits and would love for us to get married.

she goes on to say when she gets back from pakistan , she deffo wants to give it another go and meet.

and i reply back with ok , just dont forget about me when your in pakistan , she replys back with I Wont.

At this point it is really starting to get to me and i'm highly considering just walking away and going abroad to clear my head.
 
Hassan1987 said:
Salaam brothers and sisters

Last she sends me a message saying , Do you really want me hassan and reply back with messages telling her the reason's why i want her and want to spend my life with her.

she replys back with a message saying she's speachless and lost for words .

And then she ask's me what my mum thinks of us and i tell her my mum loves her to bits and would love for us to get married.

she goes on to say when she gets back from pakistan , she deffo wants to give it another go and meet.

and i reply back with ok , just dont forget about me when your in pakistan , she replys back with I Wont.

At this point it is really starting to get to me and i'm highly considering just walking away and going abroad to clear my head.
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What you are doing is haram. You should not be communicating with her as she is not your fiancee.
 
well both our mothers are saying it's ok to keep talking and keep in touch.

plus at times she sends me messages and i just respond back.
 
Hassan1987 said:
well both our mothers are saying it's ok to keep talking and keep in touch.

plus at times she sends me messages and i just respond back.
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Bro although her parents are divorced, he still has a voice as he is her father. I would suggest that you be careful. Love and romance outside of marriage are for the kufr. I know Muslims are influenced who live in the West as it is inevitable.
 
Abu Loren said:
Bro although her parents are divorced, he still has a voice as he is her father. I would suggest that you be careful. Love and romance outside of marriage are for the kufr. I know Muslims are influenced who live in the West as it is inevitable.
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Salaam.

Let him. Only you seem to be the one attacking him. If there mothers are okay with them talking to one-another without wali present (cell-phone, emails etc.) , let them talk.
 
I'm done with this stupid girl and her family .

all that's been on my mind this past week is this girl

Its just giving me a headache now.
 
Hassan1987 said:
I'm done with this stupid girl and her family .

all that's been on my mind this past week is this girl

Its just giving me a headache now.
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Um... That was random.

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sorry to disappoint

but I've just come to realize it really is not meant to be and i'm not going to be chasing after her like a dog.

She has been searching for a guy for 3 whole years and she has found no one , then i come along and she claims that i'm not like other guys and she likes

but has a weird way of showing it. This girl really would not know a good thing if it hit her over the head.
 

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