I've been betrayed

Thanks everybody. I know some advice on this forum was very hard and right on the face but I don't mind. I'm gonna need everything that there is. But definitely I'd like to comment on the Bollywood/Hindi movies thing. Brother/Sister, none of those movies are so influential that they can affect your life in a major way. Love is a very strong characteristic. If you think, its just something shown in movies then you should look for the story of Mugheeth (RadhiAllahu Anhu).

I keep making decisions of going away from her but I keep falling for her over and over again. And its been since time immemorial that I've wanted to live Islam. Actually live with the deen 24x7. InshAllah, things will get better for me. Thanks for all the advice.

Any more advice and comments are seriously appreciated. I'm having a headache right now or else I'd have written a lot more.

JazakAllah Khair.
 
YusufNoor said:
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can you ship yourself to me by post so i can slap the daylights out of you?

seriously, how old are you? do you think that you even have a clue what love might even be?

lonely? well, get your arse over to the Masjid! pray as many of your Fard prayers there as you can. you will meet, In Sha'a Allah, many, many delightful brothers you can teach you your Din and when you are ready, perhaps introduce you to a sister.

pain, pain? you only think that it is pain. your embarrassment level is probably higher than your "pain" level. go slam your hand in the car door, i'm sure THAT will hurt!



now you REALLY sound like a girl! SubhanAllah! go repent to Allah for being in a haram relationship. He WILL forgive you, be happy about THAT!




1) become a practicing Muslim

2) grow up

3) act like a man

you know, years and years from now you will look back and think:

a) Alhumdulillah that i never married that girl

and

b) wow, i was never that much of a p*ssy, was i?

seriously bro, i'm not saying that it is not possible for a woman to break your heart. i'm saying that if they do, then SO WHAT! because:

1) Allah decreed it

and

2) there is ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS someone better out there. you just won't go find them unless you first lose the 1st one.

so Allah Subhannahu wa Ta' Aala has done you an immense favor.

REJOICE!

and say Alhumdulillah!

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subhannalah these is very true......it is mercy from Allah that he is guiding him to the straight path n he should be happy he is among those chosen to be guided in the straight path.

indeed it is an immense favour from Allah!!!!
 
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Cheerzzz!!!! Dnt be upset!!! Let me tell u, 1 thing that I realized thru out my life is to ALWAYS ASK ALLAH FOR HELP.... u loved her, u may have 4gotten about the Love of Allah which is what He wants to remind you... you have to always believe in Allah and pray for better...maybe Allah wants to teach you a lesson there, or maybe you deserve better, or maybe even Allah wanted to stop the relationship there otherwise if it went further....she could have done something more harmful than betraying you. Be thankful to Allah at all times...
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Assalmu Alaikum

Well shes obviously not worth it brother she trying to take you for a fool just grow some respect for yourself i mean yeah we've all been there but why you gona use energy to stress and hurt this that for a girl who dont care theres no point use your energy on something that would benefit you just be happy lifes too short :shade:
 

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