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tasha>farah

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ive lost faith in islam my whole lifes a mess many times i feel like killing myself i dont no wot to do,im at rock bottom.my daughte is the opnlything keepin me in this world
 
Salamualikum.

Dua'ah = best thing ever sister.

It happens to me at times aswel, relax and just listen to some Qura'an... You'll be fine dear :)

Ma'assalama
 
Asalaamualaikum,

Subhan Allah ukhti that's sad to hear. :'(

Like sis Kitty suggested, make loads of duaa, read da Quran and got to your local Masjid to get advice Insha Allah.
 
2 much stuf is happenin in my life im not jus being dramatic seeing ma councillor is not helping and i dont no wot else i can do
 
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2 much stuf is happenin in my life im not jus being dramatic seeing ma councillor is not helping and i dont no wot else i can do
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Asalaamualaikum,

Keep on praying ukhti because this is all a test from Allah (SWT).

‘Abdullah bin ‘Abbas, radiyallahu anhuma, reported: One day I was behind the Prophet, sallallahu ‘alayhi wasallam, and he said to me:

* ~ "O young man, I shall teach you some words [of advice] : Be mindful of Allah, and Allah will protect you. Be mindful of Allah, and you will find Him in front of you. If you (have need to) ask, ask of Allah; and if you seek help, seek help from Allah. Know that even if the Nation (or the whole community) were to gather together to benefit you with something, they would not benefit you with anything except that which Allah has already recorded for you, and that if they gather together to harm you with something, they would not be able to harm you with anything except that which Allah has already recorded against you." ~ *

* Al-Tirmidhi *​
 
"O you who believe! seek assistance through patience and prayer; surely Allah is with the patient."

Surah Al-Baqarah : Ayah 153​
 
deres no hope,my lifes always bin dis way and is jus getin worse.and since i converted ive been alone.i hav no1 2 talk 2,no1 2 turn 2.i jus feel lyk givin up
 
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deres no hope,my lifes always bin dis way and is jus getin worse.and since i converted ive been alone.i hav no1 2 talk 2,no1 2 turn 2.i jus feel lyk givin up
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Allah will alwayz be there all you need to do is seek for help.
 
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deres no hope,my lifes always bin dis way and is jus getin worse.and since i converted ive been alone.i hav no1 2 talk 2,no1 2 turn 2.i jus feel lyk givin up
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Sister i was the same like you, you can't say you have no one to turn to because you have Allaah the Almighty to turn to actually we all do. Sister stay strong you can't do this. Im a revert muslimah and i know it's hard being a Muslim when all your homies/blads are Non-Muslims. Remember one thing.. every difficult we are facing now, im sure others are because we get tested in each and our own different ways by Allaah.
This is satan wispering to ya..dump Satan and turn towards Allaah... there are times when you are happy yet forget Allaah, times when you down yet remember Allaah.. how comes? YES because we are in need.

Turn to Allaah and never give up! be a soulja and stay strong. So what if others are ignoring you or saying stuff to ya remember ALLAAH is and will be with you at all times.All you need to do is dua'ah and just calm down by having a bath and relax hun.

Im here for ya aswel. :)

Take care hun, anytime wana talk you can p'm. One day we can huck up :happy:

Ma'assalama
 
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deres no hope,my lifes always bin dis way and is jus getin worse.and since i converted ive been alone.i hav no1 2 talk 2,no1 2 turn 2.i jus feel lyk givin up
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:w:

It is a strange world. The times we are the most alone is the time we can become the closest to Allaah(swt) now is not the time to feel abandoned, now is the time to see that Allaah(swt) is allowing you to see how close you can be and to understand you are never alone.

Sometimes we need this feeling of being alone so that we get a nudge to turn to Allaah(swt). Keep in mind He made you and He knows what He is doing, give Him a chance to run your life, He is the best of planners.

It is also good you are seeing a counselor. Depression is a disease, it is not our normal state of life. Like all diseases it is treatable, but the treatment can be slow. Make Du'a for Allaah(swt) to grant you the patience to last you through this trying time.
 
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Verily, along with every hardship is relief.

Verily, along with every hardship is relief.

(Surah Ash-Sharh)
 
its not just he lack of muslims around me,its my whole life,things that obviously i dont wana go into.but im at the point where i feel 4 so long i stayed strong and now i cant do it anymore.all ur advice is right and great and before i would of sad yeah thanks but now i feel in so deep i dont see anyway out.
 
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deres no hope,my lifes always bin dis way and is jus getin worse.and since i converted ive been alone.i hav no1 2 talk 2,no1 2 turn 2.i jus feel lyk givin up
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sis

thats what the shaytaan wants you to do give up! trust me i esure you giving up will not help you in anyway...

sis you have Allah to talk to... a true believer will never feel alone inshallah Allah knows what your going through trust me
theres not a leaf that falls without Allah knowing of it...
dont you think Allah knows what your going through?

try reading salaat and after your praying just sit down and seriously talk to Allah tell him your problems sis... no prayer goes unanswered

You have all of us to talk to, all of your bros and sisters man where right here man inshallah besides you...
 
what choice do you have? fortunately, you have a daughter who needs you.
sometimes when we are in great pain, God seems very far away. this is when we need him the most, but something in us has blocked him.
have you lost faith in islam, or have you lost faith in life and in your ability to cope with it?
i don't know what you're going through but you are obviously suffering and feeling abandoned by God and everyone. many people have been where you are now. believe it or not, it does pass and things do get better.
don't lose hope - you can't afford to as a mother. giving up is not an alternative.
i hope you will find help and support while you are going through whatever it is that is happening in your life.
 
The people who suffer the most in this life are the anbiya Prophets alay salaam. Then those after them then those after them. Look and read at Prophet (saw) life and compare it to yours...No comparision at all. When I am distressed I always repeat "With hardship comes many ease, with hardship comes many ease" Then I say life is short and the ease will come sooner than expected. It does make me feel better. Just do what the Prophet (saw) did when he was in major distress he turned to his Creator for help immediate either through dhikr or salaah. That is what brought ease in his life. That should bring ease to all of our lives. Read Sura balaad and get a tafsir of that Sura. In that Surah it says "Indeed we have created humans in toil/distress." What does that mean? Why did Allah (swt) do that?

Read begining of sura Ankabut...we all be tested eventually to see separate the true believers from the liars.

If that all does not work look at all the wonderful things Allah (swt) gave you and be grateful for that. Look at people who have less than you and that will really wake you up. Gratitude can change your whole life 180 degrees. True Gratitude is amazing feeling that our Prophet (saw) always experienced. Gratitude is even linked to Kaffar (disbelief) which is what you are falling towards, unfortunately. I could say a lot more but I try to make it short. May Allah (swt) guide you, make your heart firm upon his deen, and increase you in gratitiude...ameen.
 
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ive lost faith in life and i no theres people out there way worse off than me but ryt now im feelin in a wa6y n which i cant even begin 2 sit and think about that,wel i cant control the way im feeling.ive had tears streaming down my face for almost the last 2 hours.its uncontolable.
 
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ive lost faith in life and i no theres people out there way worse off than me but ryt now im feelin in a wa6y n which i cant even begin 2 sit and think about that,wel i cant control the way im feeling.ive had tears streaming down my face for almost the last 2 hours.its uncontolable.
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aww man sis i really feel for you...

maybe it would help if you told us whats really bothering you? and from there inshallah we can help even more
 

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