Judmental people...Grrrrrr

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Skillganon said:
I suggest people to speak properly. People are less likely to take you seriousely when speaking slang. You can speak with your freinds but when you wan't to communicate with people speak & write properly.

You never know you might see an improvement in your spelling.
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yo yo yo, u tlkin to dee officvial member of dee slang crew ya gets moiii but me also an A grde studnt, inittt, me gtza A in eng lit n A in eng lang, dnt judge ma brain on d way me writz ok, me cn spelllll btta then u

lol :p
 
MusLiM 4 LiFe said:
let her spk da way she wntz blad.. nah i onli sed dt 2 P u off evn more.. jokes.. anyway, leave her alone man, i dnt like u mean people pikin on us.. :-\ leave uz b innit..!

if we ignorant, ignore us.. simple as :D
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initttttttttttttttt lol
 
''muahahah''

whats that supposed to mean.. i think u mean ha ha why you add the mu before it.


''its only u hu has a prob wid dat tho''

no its not only me i think its other people too. but they too afraid to say it to you.. I was brave enough to come and say this.. muhahaha.


''and bro khalil u wer a lil harsh on sis asian.. remember she ma sissss respect yh''

i dont care if she's ur sis, and i wasnt harsh to her.. what i said what was wright.. Tell your sis to stop using too much slang...

the sis here are worse than the bros in using slang.. astaghfirullah where did this come from....

May allah help us all. ameen.
 
Personally on this forum I think it's a matter of respect. People need to understand and remember that we are family and that there are things that annoy others and that if we can we can try to make life easier for others.

For example, I, because of where I've been brought up and because of the way I have been brought up have always used slang and if I spoke on here 'normally' as I normally would not alot of people would understand me and they would get annoyed because that is something that annoys them, so I stopped speaking like that and only do so sometimes in the right threads.

I think it's part of Islam that you make things easy for your brothers and sisters, so why not make it easy, if you know that saying something will make upset your sister or brother or that speaking in a way will upset them then would it not be better for us to not say it or for us to not speak in that way.

Anyhow, I'll leave it there, its upto the individual and how much they love their friends and community to change the way they speak or what they say so not annoy others.
 
^^ Well Behaviour And Your Language Is Different...As Kidz...We May Have Grown Up with Our Mates At School And Learnt Slang Off Them...And We Use It...Its Just Something That Naturally Came With Us As We Grew Up...I Understand There's A Problem About It...But Calling Someone A Slag/Idiot Just Because Of That...There's A Difference Between A Slag Talking Slang And A Normal Person Talking Slang...BIG DIFFERENCE...

Not Justifying It To Be Used On The Forum...But Im Just Saying...Know That It's Common With Them People To Speak Slang..You Can't Dub Them Chavz/Idiotz Or Whatever...A Simple "Come Again?" Or "Could You Explain What This Means Please" Would Do...

btw...thread should be closed...
 
Assalamu Alaikum

well said ekhi, I second that.

this isn't getting anywhere, and some need to stop being selfish inshallah or not post at all.

There's a bad rep feature, i might start using it instead. Some of us need to grow up inshallah..

fi aman Allah
w'salaam
 
xcuse me bro khalil u hav no ryt 2 speak 2 sis asian like dat, i seriously fink u shud apologize..

obviously in serious discusions i spk properly, and not in slang, but in thredz such as da games thred etc etc i dont find it necessary so in yo face :)
 
u can call me wateva u want, slag, chav, ''gangsta'' it aint gona go 2 ma hart cuz i kno, and Allah nowz dat i aint :) and can i juz ask da HATER aka anonymous person, why u postin in anon 4? what u frightened of? im sorry, but if u got sumet 2 say why dont u juz say it as u and stop abusin da anon account..

the anonymous system is 4: I am hoping this will allow people who have very sensitive issues to use this account without feeling their identity compromised.
so do u hav a feelin ur identity is compromised??? wat u scared of?
 
Assalmualikum.
Ukthi don't let this get to you because ONLY Allah subhnawatallah can judge people just remember them in your du'ah that they understand.
Ma'assalama
 
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UK's Vicky Pollards 'left behind'
Britain's teenagers risk becoming a nation of "Vicky Pollards" held back by poor verbal skills, research suggests.

And like the Little Britain character the top 20 words used, including yeah, no, but and like, account for around a third of all words, the study says.

Lancaster University's Professor Tony McEnery who conducted the research said vocabulary size was defined early on.

His study of blogs, questionnaires and speech found teenagers used half the words of average 25 to 34-year-olds.

When things are funny it is because they ring true with people
Prof McEnery

His study of a database of teenage speech suggested teenagers had vocabulary of just over 12,600 words compared with the nearly 21,400 words that the average person aged 25 to 34 uses.

Prof McEnery said in his study: "Of note when examining the word 'no' is the frequency with which the word is accompanied by the word 'but'.

"These words occur in the sequence 'but no' or 'no but' almost twice as frequently in teenage speech as it does in young adult or middle aged speech."

The sequence is particularly reminiscent of Vicky Pollard's trademark "Yeah but, no but".

"I think it was extremely well observed as most comedy often is.

"When things are funny it is because they ring true with people," said Prof McEnery who conducted the research conducted by Tesco Internet phone.

Verbal skills

But he says there is a serious point to the research, which is to highlight what he sees as the neglect of verbal communication skills in schools.

"While the school curriculum shows a strong focus on literacy, speech has been relatively neglected in the curriculum," he said.

Employers often complained that new employees were unable to answer the telephone in the formal way required of them for work and that they were also intimidated by speaking formally in meetings, the professor added.

He put this down to a lack of training and the overuse of technologies such as computer games and MP3 players.

"This trend, known as technology isolation syndrome, could lead to problems in the classroom and then later in life.

"Employers are already complaining that first jobbers are lacking basic verbal communication and it seems things could be set to get worse.

"Kids need to get talking and develop their vocabulary."

Tesco, which commissioned the report, said it was responding by launching a scheme which allows all UK comprehensive schools to interact and communicate with other schools around the country using its internet phone technology.

Story from BBC NEWS:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/go/pr/fr/-/1/hi/education/6173441.stm

Published: 2006/12/12 18:24:06 GMT
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MusLiM 4 LiFe said:
xcuse me bro khalil u hav no ryt 2 speak 2 sis asian like dat, i seriously fink u shud apologize..

obviously in serious discusions i spk properly, and not in slang, but in thredz such as da games thred etc etc i dont find it necessary so in yo face :)
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Assalamu Aleykum,

Sister just for the record don't think I'm against anyone or that I'm with a group saying this or that.

I do wonder though, are you taking this thread as a sort of joke? A place to score points? Because I, personally, find this thread upsetting, when I read you say 'so in yo face' I can understand that two ways, either your joking around and well I mean this is hardly the place or your being serious and if you were then again it's not an 'us' against 'them' or a point scoring thread sister.

Maybe I've understood wrong, please correct me.

Your brother,

Eesa.
 
well :p

typical anon lol :p always hidin :D:D

this is what i said in the slang thread, just cos someone talks in a certain way it cant make them a certain type of person, what happen to the "dont judge a book by lookin at the cover" or or "before you look at others, look at yourself"

i think most of the people that use slang here, use it in their own groups, like people they are familiar with, and if they replyin to someone they dont know they will most probably not use slang! same with a discussion, if a serious discussion is happenin, people will be serious :D

but back on topic, agreed :D we shouldnt judge anyone :D
 
khalil27 said:
''muahahah''

whats that supposed to mean.. i think u mean ha ha why you add the mu before it.


''its only u hu has a prob wid dat tho''

no its not only me i think its other people too. but they too afraid to say it to you.. I was brave enough to come and say this.. muhahaha.


''and bro khalil u wer a lil harsh on sis asian.. remember she ma sissss respect yh''

i dont care if she's ur sis, and i wasnt harsh to her.. what i said what was wright.. Tell your sis to stop using too much slang...

the sis here are worse than the bros in using slang.. astaghfirullah where did this come from....

May allah help us all. ameen.
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WAT THEEEEEE...!! WAT IS UP WIT U MAN! ILL TALK HOWEVER I LIKE IF U DNT LIKE SIMPLY DOOOOOOO 1 DONT READ MA POSTS, GO 2 YA PERSONAL PAGE N BLOK YASELF 4RM SEEIN MA MSGS, N IF ANY1 ELSE HAS A PROB WID DAT, U CAN DO DA SAME, I AINT GNA CHANGE DA WAY I TALK OR ACT JUS COSA FEW KNOBS ON HERE WAT THE HELLLLLLLLLLL IS UP WIT U MAN
 
oki dt woz a lil out of order.. but so woz calin da slang people a slag :-\
 
MusLiM 4 LiFe said:
xcuse me bro khalil u hav no ryt 2 speak 2 sis asian like dat, i seriously fink u shud apologize..

obviously in serious discusions i spk properly, and not in slang, but in thredz such as da games thred etc etc i dont find it necessary so in yo face :)
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thanks sis glad theres sum decent peeps around ere
 
Al Habeshi said:
Assalamu Aleykum,

Sister just for the record don't think I'm against anyone or that I'm with a group saying this or that.

I do wonder though, are you taking this thread as a sort of joke? A place to score points? Because I, personally, find this thread upsetting, when I read you say 'so in yo face' I can understand that two ways, either your joking around and well I mean this is hardly the place or your being serious and if you were then again it's not an 'us' against 'them' or a point scoring thread sister.

Maybe I've understood wrong, please correct me.

Your brother,

Eesa.
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bro i aint tryna score any points.. why wud i? what hav i got 2 gain? :? dont mke me any more kooler dan i am.. nah joke.. ermmm, well da amount of times thredz like that 1 has been opened i cant help but find it hilarious :?
 
Assalmualikum,
this thread should be closed now it's not right to argue please talk in a civil manner && remember why are we fussing over little stuff? come on we are muslims so act like one inshallah :)
sis Queen cheer up Ukthi && chiilax :wub:
Ma'assalama
 
AsIaN_qUeEn said:
WAT THEEEEEE...!! WAT IS UP WIT U MAN! ILL TALK HOWEVER I LIKE IF U DNT LIKE SIMPLY DOOOOOOO 1 DONT READ MA POSTS, GO 2 YA PERSONAL PAGE N BLOK YASELF 4RM SEEIN MA MSGS, N IF ANY1 ELSE HAS A PROB WID DAT, U CAN DO DA SAME, I AINT GNA CHANGE DA WAY I TALK OR ACT JUS COSA FEW KNOBS ON HERE WAT THE HELLLLLLLLLLL IS UP WIT U MAN
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You see sister, do you think this is a way for a Muslimah to act? Forget what others say, I want to ask you about what you've just said, do you think it is right and a sign of taqwa for a Muslim to say "A FEW KNOBS..." or even "WAT THEEEE......" be honest with me, am your brother, am not trying to score points or nothing, but do you think you should refer to people as 'KNOBS'??


Your Brother,

Eesa.
 
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