I am 37 and i can not afforf to get married in my country since people become materialistic and pious women and men are hard currency.Many speak about teaching of islam but when it comes to practice only words are the loudest.
Do what i do try to fast to increase u imane because if u fast u will not think of doing haram or watch bad films or magazine from fajr till maghreb.At the evening u do dikr as well as the one of the morning than listen to a lecture or read or listen to QURAN.WHEN Satan whispers recide adan and seek refuge in Allah.Moreover, change the room or go perform abulution.WA ALLAH MASTURBATION is bad and once u start u will find hard to stop.Moreover if u refrain from doing haram, u will fell happy.Do not date busy u self too with productive activities.
Masturbation (for both men and women) is haraam (forbidden) in Islam based on the following evidence: First from the Qur’aan: Imam Shafi’i stated that masturbation is forbidden based on the following verses from the Qur’aan (interpretation of the meaning): "And those who guard their chastity (i.e. private parts, from illegal sexual acts). Except from their wives or (the captives and slaves) that their right hands possess, - for them, they are free from blame. But whoever seeks beyond that, then those are the transgressors." 23.5-7 Here the verses are clear in forbidding all illegal sexual acts (including masturbation) except for the wives or that their right hand possess. And whoever seeks beyond that is the transgressor. "And let those who find not the financial means for marriage keep themselves chaste, until Allah enriches them of His bounty." 24.33. This verse also clearly orders whoever does not have the financial means to marry to keep himself chaste and be patient in facing temptations (including masturbation) until Allah enriches them of His bounty. Secondly, from the sunnah of the Prophet (peace be upon him): Abdullaah ibn Mas’ood said, "We were with the Prophet while we were young and had no wealth whatsoever. So Allaah’s Messenger said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power." Bukhari:5066
Do what i do try to fast to increase u imane because if u fast u will not think of doing haram or watch bad films or magazine from fajr till maghreb.At the evening u do dikr as well as the one of the morning than listen to a lecture or read or listen to QURAN.WHEN Satan whispers recide adan and seek refuge in Allah.Moreover, change the room or go perform abulution.WA ALLAH MASTURBATION is bad and once u start u will find hard to stop.Moreover if u refrain from doing haram, u will fell happy.Do not date busy u self too with productive activities.
Masturbation (for both men and women) is haraam (forbidden) in Islam based on the following evidence: First from the Qur’aan: Imam Shafi’i stated that masturbation is forbidden based on the following verses from the Qur’aan (interpretation of the meaning): "And those who guard their chastity (i.e. private parts, from illegal sexual acts). Except from their wives or (the captives and slaves) that their right hands possess, - for them, they are free from blame. But whoever seeks beyond that, then those are the transgressors." 23.5-7 Here the verses are clear in forbidding all illegal sexual acts (including masturbation) except for the wives or that their right hand possess. And whoever seeks beyond that is the transgressor. "And let those who find not the financial means for marriage keep themselves chaste, until Allah enriches them of His bounty." 24.33. This verse also clearly orders whoever does not have the financial means to marry to keep himself chaste and be patient in facing temptations (including masturbation) until Allah enriches them of His bounty. Secondly, from the sunnah of the Prophet (peace be upon him): Abdullaah ibn Mas’ood said, "We were with the Prophet while we were young and had no wealth whatsoever. So Allaah’s Messenger said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power." Bukhari:5066
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