KUFR THOUGHTS, how to get rid of them? :'(

wa iyaak..im happy to hear that these thoughts have gone Alhamdulilah. I Know u said that u dont know exactly how these thoughts dissapeared but i just wanted to ask what things did u do in particular to help urself..i have read many fatwaas on fighting these evil thoughts but its just a matter of acting upon the advice and being consistent upon it imsad

Wassalaamu alaykum
 
C'est Moi said:
wa iyaak..im happy to hear that these thoughts have gone Alhamdulilah. I Know u said that u dont know exactly how these thoughts dissapeared but i just wanted to ask what things did u do in particular to help urself..i have read many fatwaas on fighting these evil thoughts but its just a matter of acting upon the advice and being consistent upon it imsad

Wassalaamu alaykum
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salams sis

allahu alam but i adopted this habit where i make istighfar everytime i can... when i walk to work or walking around i just keep saying it as well as 'laa ilaha ilalah' and 'authu bilah' (when thoughts cross)

alhamdulilah i havnt got them for loooong time now.. i do get the occasional flashback where i recall an instance but its very very rare alhamdulilah n its more like a memory ratehr than shaytan making me think im saying it...

srsly it works well... just make it a habbit inshalah, its not a hard habit to adopt
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Im in need of some advice inshaallah. I read one of the posts where someone mentioned that they have these thoughts when they are trying to sleep... and this also happens to me and its really frustrating when i cannot sleep. The strange thing is that as soon as its about 1am i always find myself unable to sleep even though i am really tired..the whisperings seem to get worse and i just start to feel all weak and dizzy etc even though im extremely tired i just cAnnot sleep because of this weird feeling in my body..its hard to explain..is there anyone in this forum who experiences anything similar to what i have...also when this is happening i feel scared that im going to die and it makes me feel even more anxious..:cry:

One of the members mentioned that they suffered from these whisperings for 13 or so years..i just wanted ask if you have recovered from it and are there any tips you can offer me...this has been happening to me for 3 years now and i feel like i will never improve.. the problem just seems to be getting worse and the whisperings are getting stronger....:confused:

Barakallahu feekum

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Salamualaikum.


Yes. Ive been throu those hard phases. It was started in 2005, I was doing Taraweh and suddenly the thougts came out of the blue. I was trembled, I was scared to death, and I felt alone, I said to my self that it was impossible for me to tell this to everyone as I was afraid they would think Im crazY! doh...

It disappeared after I spent so many naights crying and begging.

Last few weeks, the thoughts came again even stronger, such an ironic, I had those blasphemy when I was in Majlis Dzikr, I was trembled and fallen to pieces, I thought I was a munafiqun who have "illnesses in their heart", but thats not the case. I browsed in the internet relating to my symptoms, and apparently I have this Obsessive unwanted thoughts. it is close to OCD.
I couldnt sleep, I didnt go to work, I hardly did anything. How could I eat, work, sleep while my Iman is damage? But insha Allah, that is not the case. It is a test. I kept searching in the internet ... but they didnt satisfy me,
I was longing for islamic explanations, subhanallah, I have found it.
It is waswas.

And the idea how you overcome with such unwanted and disturbing thoughts, you may find them in this forum, check again, many good people have explain, esp those who have been throu this.

The stronger your fear is, the stronger the thoughts have the power.. when you are less fear, the thoughts will be weaker insha Allah. but its easy to say, yes indeed, but nothing is impossible for Allah. down on your knee and pray, cry:cry:, beg, I used to mention in details what I felt in my prayer, my fear, anxious, my worries, and come up with blasphemious thoughts and I seeked refugee, forgiveness and power to cope with these thoughts, and tears in prayers really help a lot, that surely helps insha Allah.

And one thing for sure, Shodaqoh-to needy people, to the closest relatives, to donate to your nearest Mosque, they will insha Allah fasten your prayer. Wallahu alam bishawab

A friend said to me (and she has decent knowledge in Islam), it is a good sign, the tests insha Allah will bring you to higher Maqom. I asked to a Ulama, Hasan Shahab, and he said it is relatively normal.

"And We will most certainly try you with somewhat of FEAR and hunger and loss of property and lives and fruits; and give good news to the patient," (Al Baqoroh - 155). :)
 
salam wa 3lykom


well i did have that problem n sometimes i still get it but during salah n the only way to stop it is to say awzo bel allah men el shytan el reajeem n its makes it go away .. i used to hit my self .. but then u know as they say just from now on say the zekr n inshallah it will go away peace
 
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subhanALLAh...once agin im speachless...i use the same wording,if not exact when i finally had theguts to tell my Mom.of course i didnt tell her wut i wa sthinking,just the fact that it was so bad that i couldnt say it

completely goes against eveything i believe.SubhanALLAH...i thought i would go to hell for having such thought,although i always rejected with such passion...now-d-days i completely ignore it,try to not let it bother me although its hard

SubhanALLAH..i thought i was alone when it cam eto this,although all the things i have wen through, a sis on this board has also,i mean exact same things ive went through,i cnat even explain it,no termanolgy...all i can say is SubhanALLAH

i always Pray to ALLAH (SWA) in Sajood,after second Rak'a and after i read Ayatal Kursi,Nas,Falaq,n Ikhlas that He (SWA) may protect me from these eveils things and not to let them effect me physically,mentally,or effect my Iman,always ask ALLAH (SAW) to make your Iman stronger and guide you to the right path

ok well i hope yall all bat the shaydaan,although sometime its tough.Remember keep faith and trust in ALLAH (SWA) n he always be on your side,SubhanALLAH

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wisnu said:
Salamualaikum.


Yes. Ive been throu those hard phases. It was started in 2005, I was doing Taraweh and suddenly the thougts came out of the blue. I was trembled, I was scared to death, and I felt alone, I said to my self that it was impossible for me to tell this to everyone as I was afraid they would think Im crazY! doh...

It disappeared after I spent so many naights crying and begging.

Last few weeks, the thoughts came again even stronger, such an ironic, I had those blasphemy when I was in Majlis Dzikr, I was trembled and fallen to pieces, I thought I was a munafiqun who have "illnesses in their heart", but thats not the case. I browsed in the internet relating to my symptoms, and apparently I have this Obsessive unwanted thoughts. it is close to OCD.
I couldnt sleep, I didnt go to work, I hardly did anything. How could I eat, work, sleep while my Iman is damage? But insha Allah, that is not the case. It is a test. I kept searching in the internet ... but they didnt satisfy me,
I was longing for islamic explanations, subhanallah, I have found it.
It is waswas.

And the idea how you overcome with such unwanted and disturbing thoughts, you may find them in this forum, check again, many good people have explain, esp those who have been throu this.

The stronger your fear is, the stronger the thoughts have the power.. when you are less fear, the thoughts will be weaker insha Allah. but its easy to say, yes indeed, but nothing is impossible for Allah. down on your knee and pray, cry:cry:, beg, I used to mention in details what I felt in my prayer, my fear, anxious, my worries, and come up with blasphemious thoughts and I seeked refugee, forgiveness and power to cope with these thoughts, and tears in prayers really help a lot, that surely helps insha Allah.

And one thing for sure, Shodaqoh-to needy people, to the closest relatives, to donate to your nearest Mosque, they will insha Allah fasten your prayer. Wallahu alam bishawab

A friend said to me (and she has decent knowledge in Islam), it is a good sign, the tests insha Allah will bring you to higher Maqom. I asked to a Ulama, Hasan Shahab, and he said it is relatively normal.

"And We will most certainly try you with somewhat of FEAR and hunger and loss of property and lives and fruits; and give good news to the patient," (Al Baqoroh - 155). :)
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subhanALLAH,i love being a Muslim

its like all my problems have goen through others as well,i always thought i was the only one.very hard and depressing

so sture,im not a emotional person,thus is very hard for me to cry in Salat,doesnt matter how long n hard i try,i even began to think me not being able to cry ment that i was a bad Muslim

i us eto Ask ALLAH (SWA) to make me of those who wept out of fear and love for him n now wen i really do mean it its easy for me to cry and you feel so so so much satisfaction afterwards.Alhamdulilah it feels so great..it has a lasting effect on u for while also

JazakALLAh Khair for sharing.May ALLAH (SWA) rewrd you,Insh ALLAH,Ameen

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Alhamdulillah ...


Alhamdulillah Sister. Jazzakallah Khoir ....

You are not alone. We are not alone. We, as moslems, have to stick together in good or bad times. And Allah Will Help us, insha Allah.

I still have the thoughts, but they are now weaker. It is not because I have stronger faith, but it is Allah Gives me strength by showing me this forum and these people who have the same problems. Believe this, Allah Will NEVER do you harm. NEVER.

I'll pray for you and others, please pray for me too.

Salamualaikum
 

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