Aww sis..don't stress too much..I still buy the pins..I just wear them in an Islamic environment where possible..I still like lil cute crystalsIf there are no restrictions in Islamic Law requiring women to wear special colors, and that women should only avoid colors that attract the attention of others then what’s wring with a pin that has 1cm of colour on it. What attracts attention is a matter of custom. Something might draw attention in one country and be completely ordinary in another.
I think women should stop wearing plastic ones too just in case the sunlight reflects the colour and might be visible to a brother which may in turn cause lust., in fact you should really wear the silver safety pins too as the colour silver may cause a bit of bling in the sunlight…. Silly???? over the top??? YES
Due to constant nit-picking issues no wonder statistics show that Islamic businesses will fail during the first 2 years of trading.
If you don’t support the concept, please don’t knock it
Aww sis..don't stress too much..I still buy the pins..I just wear them in an Islamic environment where possible..I still like lil cute crystals![]()
If there are no restrictions in Islamic Law requiring women to wear special colors, and that women should only avoid colors that attract the attention of others then what’s wring with a pin that has 1cm of colour on it. What attracts attention is a matter of custom. Something might draw attention in one country and be completely ordinary in another.
I think women should stop wearing plastic ones too just in case the sunlight reflects the colour and might be visible to a brother which may in turn cause lust., in fact you should really wear the silver safety pins too as the colour silver may cause a bit of bling in the sunlight…. Silly???? over the top??? YES
Due to constant nit-picking issues no wonder statistics show that Islamic businesses will fail during the first 2 years of trading.
Does it? All the people opposing have said is becareful, the sister pointed out that you could wear this thing to an all sister place, and so forth.
If you don’t support the concept, please don’t knock it
Constructive critisism was what I tried to offer, if it's a 'either praise us or keep quiet' thing then ok, but just like I'd speak to my own blood sisters about things I'd speak to Muslims about.
Sorry if I offended you or your business or anyone.
I'm not contradicting myself at all sis. I said I like that kinda stuff too and it's ok to wear jewellery in the presence of sisters but not in front of ghair mahrams. That's not a contradiction.Im not be horrible or anything but Sister you really are contradicting yourself, you like crystal pins yet are declaring them unislamic???
Actually, I was referring to myself when I said that what we once see as ok, might not seem appropriate as our imaan increases. I never always wore hijab and in those time it didn't occur to me that I'm making myself look pretty with flowery clips in my hair. But as I began wearing hijab and my imaan increased I realised that what I did was so wrong and I was doing nothing but attracting unwanted attention. I do believe that pretty things attract attention - even if they are glittery clips on your hijab. That's what I was talking about that we see things differently as our imaan increases.Thank you for hinting to me the low level of iman that i have. Many thanks.
Bless you sis. But there's a big difference between arguing and commenting. When I said that arguing is futile, I meant that I'm not going to keep giving my opinions to someone who doesn't agree.Im not here to argue, only responding to comments made by yourselves to instigate the matter further.
If you really felt it was fultile to argue then you really shouldnt have bothered to comment on the situation since you have experince of the board.
My opinion isn't worth anything unless it's in accordance with Islam. Allah has stated in the Quran to not reveal our refineries and adornments. And that is what provoked me to comment in the first place. If there are no restrictions on the colour of clothing that still doesn't mean we should start extending that to the size and colour of jewellery that is clearly forbidden to be displayed.I suggest if you want to make a comment that you have a certified opinion and not somthing that is your own.
OK< inshaAllah, I won't.I will not be responding to anymore mails on the forum, so please do not send me a message.
Please don't get me wrong dear sis. I have nothing against your buisiness and wish you success. Selling fancy hairpins itself is not wrong, as they can be worn in sisters presence validly. What isn't approprite is adorning one's clothing with attractive jewellery in front of ghair mahrams. I hope, you understand that I didn't mean to undermine you or your business.For those few who had somthing nice to say many thanks. For those who said not so nice thing thanks too.
Well, the point I was making was the fact that it is jewelry, I don't think anyone sees a plastic pin or a silver safety pin as attractive, do they? As you said sometimes it comes down to costums, and I know round here something which looks crystal like or blingbling is going to get attention, unlike a plastic pin or a safety one.
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