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Salam Alaikum
In life we often encounter many opportunities, many times we get a hold of knowledge or resources that will not just benefit us but others as well. Yet many times we hold on to it thinking "if I tell him / her, they will get ahead of me" And as a result not share it with others. Some example are:
- You get knowledge of a job opportunity, u know another person who is also looking for a job but just so that your chances are increased you dont tell them about it.
- You get bring home some yummy food and suddenly some people arrive to visit you and you quickly 'hide' it thinking il eat it after they are gone.
These concepts are not Islamic concepts.
Why?
Because in Islam we believe in Qadr (predestination), meaning what is meant for us will come our way and what is not meant for us we will not get. However that dosent mean a person stops trying.
Always remember that everything in life is an opportunity, though we may not see it as such but everything is! Examples:
- You get info of a job opening:
Option A: You tell others about it and in turn get good deeds
Option B: You dont tell others in turn losing an opportunity to gain good deeds
Result: If you were meant to get that job you will get it irrespective of how many people applied, if you were not meant to get it, you wont even if you were the only one who applied. The test was for YOU to see if you will share and care or be selfish!
- Your parents fall ill and you have to serve them every day and it is really messing up your private life:
Option A: You can serve them and get the greatest of good deeds and even gaining paradise in turn.
Option B: You can run away with excuses and lose this great opportunity for gaining paradise.
Result: Irrespective of wether you care for your parents or not - if they are meant to die they will die, if they are meant to live they will live. The test was for YOU to see if you will fulfil your obligations or act in a self centered manner!
- You bring home some food, some take away (something really good!), suddenly a bunch of guests arrive
Option A: You share with them your food and show them hospitality and in turn gaining good deeds.
Option B: You hide the food and save it for later, though ull enjoy the meal in private later but you will lose the opportunnity to do good!
Result: Irrespective of wether you serve your guests the food or not, they will get the food (from somewhere else) if it was ordained for them, if it was not ordained then even if you offer them they will not eat it. The test was for YOU to see if you are going to serve your guests or only think of yourself!
These are just a few simple examples of opportunities we get presented to do good or turn away from good - can you think of any more?
Think deep and analyze your life's every moment and try and guess what the challenge is and what the opportunities are.
Remember: Every minute of every day of every year in Life is a test!
In life we often encounter many opportunities, many times we get a hold of knowledge or resources that will not just benefit us but others as well. Yet many times we hold on to it thinking "if I tell him / her, they will get ahead of me" And as a result not share it with others. Some example are:
- You get knowledge of a job opportunity, u know another person who is also looking for a job but just so that your chances are increased you dont tell them about it.
- You get bring home some yummy food and suddenly some people arrive to visit you and you quickly 'hide' it thinking il eat it after they are gone.
These concepts are not Islamic concepts.
Why?
Because in Islam we believe in Qadr (predestination), meaning what is meant for us will come our way and what is not meant for us we will not get. However that dosent mean a person stops trying.
Always remember that everything in life is an opportunity, though we may not see it as such but everything is! Examples:
- You get info of a job opening:
Option A: You tell others about it and in turn get good deeds
Option B: You dont tell others in turn losing an opportunity to gain good deeds
Result: If you were meant to get that job you will get it irrespective of how many people applied, if you were not meant to get it, you wont even if you were the only one who applied. The test was for YOU to see if you will share and care or be selfish!
- Your parents fall ill and you have to serve them every day and it is really messing up your private life:
Option A: You can serve them and get the greatest of good deeds and even gaining paradise in turn.
Option B: You can run away with excuses and lose this great opportunity for gaining paradise.
Result: Irrespective of wether you care for your parents or not - if they are meant to die they will die, if they are meant to live they will live. The test was for YOU to see if you will fulfil your obligations or act in a self centered manner!
- You bring home some food, some take away (something really good!), suddenly a bunch of guests arrive
Option A: You share with them your food and show them hospitality and in turn gaining good deeds.
Option B: You hide the food and save it for later, though ull enjoy the meal in private later but you will lose the opportunnity to do good!
Result: Irrespective of wether you serve your guests the food or not, they will get the food (from somewhere else) if it was ordained for them, if it was not ordained then even if you offer them they will not eat it. The test was for YOU to see if you are going to serve your guests or only think of yourself!
These are just a few simple examples of opportunities we get presented to do good or turn away from good - can you think of any more?
Think deep and analyze your life's every moment and try and guess what the challenge is and what the opportunities are.
Remember: Every minute of every day of every year in Life is a test!