Lonely

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I have never been a muslim. My father disowned me and my brother to start a new life with someone else. He has moved and cut off all contact with his family. No one has seen him in years.

I loved the suggestions of getting a cat or a dog. I have a cat. :D But, I need human contact too.

I recently started university and still don't know people very well. I am working here, for the person concerned about that. I will make around $500 a month.

As much as I understand and appreciate the suggestions to turn to Allah, with my current beliefs—it's impossible for me to convert.

I've nestled myself in with books and studying to distract myself from the pressure of making friends. +o(

Isn't that opposite from the normal person? :hmm:

I feel like it will suddenly change soon. I don't know why. A lot of things are changing, not socially just yet, but educationally, financially, and I am being exposed to more and more very quickly.

I will see how this year turns out for me. And, if Allah is directing it, please have mercy. Even though I don't believe, I don't disbelieve. I can be wrong because I am a human.

I have been reflecting, reading, and writing in my free time at the university library. It's some nice scenery surrounded with trees changing from green to yellows and reds as Autumn arrives. A bird just ran into the window. ;D

Thanks a lot. I appreciate it and I liked reading the selfless responses that were given! :statisfie
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My friend we Muslims are like one brotherhood and one body. If one part of the body feels pain then the whole body will feel pain. Similarly if any of our brothers and sisters need help no matter where they are then we should do our utmost to help them. When you come into Islam inshallah (God willing) then you will feel this brotherhood and never feel lonely again!

If you believe that Allah is one and that he has no equal and that Muhammed (Pbuh) is his messenger as is confirmed by the Bible, vedas,Jewish scriptures aswell as the Buddhist and Parsi's scriptures, then you believe what a Muslim does. All that is missing is that you have'nt proclaimed the shahada which is just one sentence:

Ashadu Allaah ilaaha ilallahu wa ashadu anna Muhammadan Abduhu warasulu

I bear witness that there is no worthy of worship except Allah and that Muhammed (Pbuh) is his slave and messenger.

Thats how simple it is. Allah is wanting to guide you and that is why you are curious but open your heart a little more and the truth will seap through and permeate through your heart.
 
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Allah is wanting to guide you that is why your heart is becoming inclined to come towards Islam. If you have any questions then please don't hesitate to ask inshallah. Keep us informed of your progress as we are all here to help you.

Remember that we Muslims are all one brotherhood, meaning that we are like one body. If one part of the body feels pain then we all feel pain and we should try out utmost to make sure the part of the body that is in pained gets healed as soon as possible.

"The Believers are but a single Brotherhood." [Al-Hujurat 49:10]

"A Muslim is the brother of another Muslim. He does not oppress him, nor does he leave him at the mercy of others." [Sahih Muslim].

O Mankind, We created you from a single (pair) of a male and a female and made you into nations and tribes, that you may know each other. Verily the most honored of you in the sight of God is he who is the most righteous of you (Al-Hujurat:13).

The Islamic Brotherhood is not based on economic interests, race, or color. It is based on something infinitely superior: Rejection of falsehood and acceptance of the Truth as revealed by the One True God.

I hope you will feel soon feel this brotherhood and feel the peace, tranquility and contentment that a Muslims heart feels at the constant rememebrance of Allah.

Let me leave you with what our beloved Prophet (Pbuh) said:

"You cannot enter paradise unless you become a total believer and you won't become a total believer unless you love each other."

So inshallah when you come into Islam you will feel the love that Muslims have for each other and you will be part of the brotherhood and the body of Islam!
 
This is a sad occurrence.

First, you should ask yourself WHY did your relationships break, and then tell us (we don't know who you are). That would help us help you better.
 

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