lonliness

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partying, drinking and listening to the music only can give you temporary happiness. After you wake up in the morning you'll be sad again.

But if you do goood...you'll feel happy and great all day.
 
nightstar said:
Married, nobody will want me, ive got nothing to bring
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do not worry about what people want, worry about what God wants. once you start living a life completely devoted to Him, He will put the people in your life that need to be in it. He does not instill a desire into people to be with somebody when He intends for you to be alone... you cannot force the right moment to occur... like you birth and death God has secured a time, a place and a reason for you to be with somebody. but first, always and above all you must give yourself to God and follow His commandments and only concern yourself with what He wants.

let all of the pretty girls and charming people go in the directions God places them, and do not wait for the person coming He is guiding into your life... that only increases lonelyness and distracts you from seeking God. just trust that it will happen and focus on God.

and don't forget to keep focusing on God even when you meet whomever He places in your life.

this is already worked out by an intelligence you can't even relate to.
 
syilla said:
partying, drinking and listening to the music only can give you temporary happiness. After you wake up in the morning you'll be sad again.

But if you do goood...you'll feel happy and great all day.
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You can have a happy marriage, great friends, great grades, a great job, a great life in general and still listen to music, party or drink. These things do not exclude themselves.
And what's better, listening to music and being temporarily happy or being unhappy all the time.

anyway, the thread starter is a muslim, so my advice to him is (as it has been from the beginning): find an islamic activity that involves interaction with other people, find friends, mary if you think the time is right.
 
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bro if theres a mosque nearby go regulary, get involved in your community and make some muslim friends, keep an eye out for islamic events/ lectures and eventually you should meet some new people that you can go out with, if you can join an sport teams in your college that way you will get to know other people.

If not then keep yourself occupied, do plenty of ibaadah and research islam, read enlgish translation of quran, study hard for your ambitions, get a job, develope skills, do stuff that will benefit you etc.

If not, The best one you can do is make yourself closer to Allah, Allah (swt) is my best friend even though i have friends and know people that i can go out with and talk to, i share all my thoughts with Allah (swt) and ask him for guidence and help with everything.
Remember if someone wants to come closer to Allah then, Allah comes closer to him

hope this helps

take care bro
 
lonley?

hug ur mummy :D

trust me its the best feeling in the world

my mum pushes me off and tells me to get real :D loll.
 
assalam walaikum bro
Y dont u read, go get some book at the library, read everything islamic & non islamic book(not meanin haraam one)
And ask Allah dua'ah that u may find a lovely muslim wife
 

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