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There are many different aspects to look at other then beauty.

So what is there other then "Beauty" to like? (Same applies vice versa)

- Her humour
- Her kindness
- Her heart
- Her love for others
- Her selflessness
- Her wit
- Her intelligence
- Her family
- Her morals
- Her dedication
- Her loyalty
- Her integrity
- Her Deen
- Her perseverance
- Her smile
- Her opinions
- Her thoughts
- Her voice..

Pick wisely :).
May Allah grant us all righteous pious spouses, ameen.
 
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There are many different aspects to look at other then beauty.

So what is there other then "Beauty" to like? (Same applies vice versa)

- Her humour
- Her kindness
- Her heart
- Her love for others
- Her selflessness
- Her wit
- Her intelligence
- Her family
- Her morals
- Her dedication
- Her loyalty
- Her integrity
- Her Deen
- Her perseverance
- Her smile
- Her opinions
- Her thoughts
- Her voice..

Pick wisely :).
May Allah grant us all righteous pious spouses, ameen.

Looks like this guy didn't get the memo. (sigh)

Groom sues bride for not looking pretty without make-up: Demands $20,000 damages for shocking him

Article originally published on August 3, 2015 @ Emirates 24/7

An Algerian groom took his bride to court just a day after their marriage, accusing her of not looking as pretty as before the wedding and of cheating him with much make-up.

The groom, who is seeking $20,000 damages, told court in the capital Algiers that he was shocked when he got up in the next morning and found that his wife looked so different, that he could not recognise her.

Newspapers in the North African Arab country said the groom swore in court that he even mistook his wife for a “thief who came to steal his apartment".

“The groom told the judge that he could not recognise his wife after she washed the make-up off her face."

"He said he was deceived by her as she used to fill up her face with make up before their marriage,” the papers said, quoting a court source.

“He said she looked very beautiful and attractive before marriage, but when he woke up in the morning and found that she had washed the make-up off her face, he was frightened as he thought she was a thief."

"The groom told court that he is demanding $20,000 damages for his psychological suffering.”
 
Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Prophet (May Allah exalt his mention and protect him from imperfection) said: “A woman is married for four things: for her wealth, for her lineage, for her beauty or for her piety. Select the pious, may you be blessed!”. (Al-Bukhari and Muslim)
 
This story always cracks me up, but then again I seen some pics of the lady. Her makeup was on fleek, I need the number of her Make Up Artist!:p

Looks like this guy didn't get the memo. (sigh)

Groom sues bride for not looking pretty without make-up: Demands $20,000 damages for shocking him

Article originally published on August 3, 2015 @ Emirates 24/7

An Algerian groom took his bride to court just a day after their marriage, accusing her of not looking as pretty as before the wedding and of cheating him with much make-up.

The groom, who is seeking $20,000 damages, told court in the capital Algiers that he was shocked when he got up in the next morning and found that his wife looked so different, that he could not recognise her.

Newspapers in the North African Arab country said the groom swore in court that he even mistook his wife for a “thief who came to steal his apartment".

“The groom told the judge that he could not recognise his wife after she washed the make-up off her face."

"He said he was deceived by her as she used to fill up her face with make up before their marriage,” the papers said, quoting a court source.

“He said she looked very beautiful and attractive before marriage, but when he woke up in the morning and found that she had washed the make-up off her face, he was frightened as he thought she was a thief."

"The groom told court that he is demanding $20,000 damages for his psychological suffering.”
 
Okay, brothers, if you must choose, what would you choose?.

You had a beautiful wife. But she had bad behavior that always annoy you and always cause trouble.

...... or

You had a wife who was not beautiful. But she always respect you and always treat you well.
 
You had a beautiful wife. But she had bad behavior that always annoy you and always cause trouble.

...... or

You had a wife who was not beautiful. But she always respect you and always treat you well.

Is there option for second wife?

*runs* :hiding:
 
Taking the second wife would not solve the problem. Even it could cause new problem.

Back to the question. Which would you choose?

Hmm on a serious note, it would be far too hard to choose.

I would choose option 2, but also would incline to option 1 and intend to solve the things that cause trouble and annoyance in the relationship.
 
Can I relate to all you humans of the xy chromosome of the story of a pious who married a deaf, dumb and blind woman? :p
 
Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Prophet (May Allah exalt his mention and protect him from imperfection) said: “A woman is married for four things: for her wealth, for her lineage, for her beauty or for her piety. Select the pious, may you be blessed!”. (Al-Bukhari and Muslim)

What about for HERSELF?
 

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