Loud eardrum bursting music and dancing at hijabi girls parties?

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May Ayob said:
Salaam sis
Please before hand accept what I will say in the best way they were intended to be...
Is this post meant for anything else but critisicm?
I mean what do you want us to say: Oh these Hijabis are bad and start calling them names.. and become religous superficial?
I don;t see any point as , If I was going to be one of those girls and I read what you wrote I would take it as critiscism and backbitting ..This is to me.It's not very nice to be talking about people whom I think they like you and consider you as a friend.
We all fall into mistakes and sins , we all do bad thing we were never perfect , no matter how good we get we will never be perfect.. No need for bad opinions and SuuZan,



^^Does this sound like self-Purification to you? To me it does If you are like this then this is from the mercy of your Lord , Religion is not a competition we all fall into mistakes May be one day they will out leads us all in deeds and we will regret the fact that we have ever criticise what they were doing..
Please we all have to make differtiation between the sin and the sinner, it would be better if you have a more anonymous and indirect approach as the prophet peace and blessings be upon him used to do..He always used to say Howcome so and so is doing this ( without giving descriptions and naming names) and he always used to seperate the act from the actor

In the End we all want the good to happen to our brothers and sisters no need to take it personal.. It's not like you were annoyed by Drunk people in your front yard and it is your choice to politely leave at anytime ..

With best intentions
SAlaam
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Salam sister.
Please forgive me I am genuinely sorry if I offended you or anyone else with my post. That was not the intention Allah swt knows and neither was it to backbite and I hope Allah swt will forgive me if I did.
The main reason was to see wether I was being too extreme and uptight in being dead set against music.
Please brothers and sisters accept my sincere apologies if I caused any offence.
jazakAllah khair
 
innocent said:
Salam sister. Please forgive me I am genuinely sorry if I offended you or anyone else with my post. That was not the intention Allah swt knows and neither was it to backbite and I hope Allah swt will forgive me if I did. The main reason was to see wether I was being too extreme and uptight in being dead set against music. Please brothers and sisters accept my sincere apologies if I caused any offence. jazakAllah khair
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Salaam Sis

I don't deserve an apology beleive me I am not worthy of you being sorry
I was just trying to say that sometimes in some cases it is better to not mention descriptions
By the way I am not innocent of this my self , I wasn't going to write what I said except that .. well no need to mention
But I was not offended at all with anything you said , I was just trying to give you another perspective of the case you brought up
I understand your concern for the Ummah and I also commend it.
Non -taken no need to worry :)

Salaam
 
innocent said:
Salam sister.
Please forgive me I am genuinely sorry if I offended you or anyone else with my post. That was not the intention Allah swt knows and neither was it to backbite and I hope Allah swt will forgive me if I did.
The main reason was to see wether I was being too extreme and uptight in being dead set against music.
Please brothers and sisters accept my sincere apologies if I caused any offence.
jazakAllah khair
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No dear, your post did not seem to me as a back biting attempt at all, since we don't know who you are or your friends, and in matters of questions, one has to mention the entire story if one wants a sincere reply. And that is what I got from your post too, since i get that from people too, so please do not worry for being called extreme or such, you are never extreme when you are on Islam, islam itself is moderate. You have a choice, you can and i think you should stay away from such gatherings where you feel uncomfortable with such loud music, i do too, so i avoid them altogether, or go inside a room if it bothers so much. But by now my friends know it too that I don't like such gatherings so much, so if they really want me to come, they keep it comfortable for me, or they dont invite me, which i completely understand : )

why don't we have a hijabee partee, you me and all the sisters here , that will be a real treat :D :muslimah:
 

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