Love Before Marriage...

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Mz said:
say that to him:
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You need to explain how part :D
 
Diya said:
how are we supposed to get married if we dont go out with someone??
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ask the millions who have already done it and are happily married


or you can ask the millions who have dated and ended up in divorces



or i can ask mum, but i dont wanna get slapped :uuh:
 
wow .. very interesting and beneficial..Jazakee Allahu Khair sis.
btw..the "love" that you're talking abt is tooo harmful coz the person dreams and dreams and finally he'll be shocked..because this love didn't end with marriage or because of discovering that this love was ONE-SIDED love..
so..filling your leisure time with good things will keep u away of this..
 
pakistani parent:

love........:muddlehea..........before marriage :enough!::enough!::enough!::enough!::enough!:
what have i done to bring this day upon myself, somebody get me a paracetomol, this will be the end of me, is this what i raised you up to be!!!!!:enough!::enough!::enough!::enough!::enough!::enough!::enough!:i didnt even see your father until 6 months AFTER the marriage!!!!! , what will become of this generation, wheres my paracetomol!!!!!:enough!:

:D i wonder what the prophet would make of this outburst?
 
^ROFL;D

nice post realy and yes i agree difficulties does make you stronger indeed:)

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Its true sis. But I guess when you feel enough for a person you should marry them. And that doesnt neccesarily have to be love...

But when 2 people love one another, they should get married :)
 
Sahabiyaat said:
pakistani parent:

love........:muddlehea..........before marriage :enough!::enough!::enough!::enough!::enough!:
what have i done to bring this day upon myself, somebody get me a paracetomol, this will be the end of me, is this what i raised you up to be!!!!!:enough!::enough!::enough!::enough!::enough!::enough!::enough!:i didnt even see your father until 6 months AFTER the marriage!!!!! , what will become of this generation, wheres my paracetomol!!!!!:enough!:

:D i wonder what the prophet would make of this outburst?
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he'd obviously get her that paracetamol ! sallallahi alaihi wasallaam, what a gentle soul
 
Diya said:
how are we supposed to get married if we dont go out with someone??
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I am now married for the third time. All 3 marriagaes were very good. I never dated either of my wives. I did not even see my present wife until after we had signed the Nikkah.

Over the years you will discover that dating is not a prelude to love. It is the pathway to lust and can destroy love before it even blossoms.
 
Woodrow said:
I am now married for the third time. All 3 marriagaes were very good. I never dated either of my wives. I did not even see my present wife until after we had signed the Nikkah.

Over the years you will discover that dating is not a prelude to love. It is the pathway to lust and can destroy love before it even blossoms.
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wow..MashALLAH

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^ LOL

Nice thread. Really put things in perspective (for me). Very true that love before marriage in most cases leads to unfulfilled desires and awakens a raw heartache inside. If we don't control this before it gets too far we get depressed. And then we take anti-depressants. Which in reality actually make you more depressed (in the long-term).

Sorry for the outburst. *grin*
 
Umm Al-Shaheeeed! Lo0o0oL why bump if you dunno what its about, I forgot wat its about too....But time has taught me that love before marriage is rarely handled in the correct way. Wallahu A'lam

WassalamuAlaykum
 

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