Love Dillemma

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Umar^111 said:
Baarak Allah feeki indeed
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Jazaka Allah khyran
I have no doubt you know what you are talking about.. perhaps a grievous offense was carried out against the sheikh by writing something in his name that he didn't write.. but I like to give Muslims the benefit of the doubt.. perhaps it an honest mistake.. either way the fatwa itself seems sound without the scholar's seal of approval.. and there are many other good scholars out there..

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cat eyes said:
so your basically telling the convert muslim that to lust after a guy is okay.. like to only think of such things is allowed but not to act on them

what person only lusts but don't touch, i never heard of such people..

shaytaan is out to get us caught in his trap so be careful
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subhanAllah! You've totally miscontrued what I said. I don't even know what to say to that... :uuh:
 
salamoalaykum guys, i have been following your posts closing and taking them all in. wow alhamdulilah each response helps me in its own way! its so great to have such a supportive community...

well bad news.. today i was informed that he was 'engaged', after feeling rather disappointed, I realized that maybe this is false. I am not sure if this was the wisest decision, but I told another girl at work of my fondness for the polite gentleman toay. She told me I was in bad luck because he was engaged... yet, the gentleman does not wear any ring. But alhamdullah if he has found someone special may Allah bless them in this life in the next life.

Still, however, I am not sure of the legitimacy of this claim. I think I will make istikhara prayer tonight, inshallah, and may Allah guide me.

Thanks so much for your support guys, I really intend to keep everything halal and inshAllah I will be guided and increased in faith.

Jazakallahukhair
Ramadan kareem, Salam
 
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awww... not to worry ukhtee InshaAllah you'll find a better person. You'll always be in my duas :)

p/s: good guy is always taken. Well...first come first serve...huhuhu
 
ayn22 said:
salamoalaykum guys, i have been following your posts closing and taking them all in. wow alhamdulilah each response helps me in its own way! its so great to have such a supportive community...

well bad news.. today i was informed that he was 'engaged', after feeling rather disappointed, I realized that maybe this is false. I am not sure if this was the wisest decision, but I told another girl at work of my fondness for the polite gentleman toay. She told me I was in bad luck because he was engaged... yet, the gentleman does not wear any ring. But alhamdullah if he has found someone special may Allah bless them in this life in the next life.

Still, however, I am not sure of the legitimacy of this claim. I think I will make istikhara prayer tonight, inshallah, and may Allah guide me.

Thanks so much for your support guys, I really intend to keep everything halal and inshAllah I will be guided and increased in faith.

Jazakallahukhair
Ramadan kareem, Salam
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Tell me about it. I tried to approach a very nice Muslim girl who turns out... just had her nikkah.... lol. Yea I was deeply dissapointed, then angry, then remembered that everything happens for a reason. I prayed to Allah to grant me a good wife and I am sure He has heard me and is doing things His way.

Don't worry. Every time you think they are the perfect one then a couple months later or next year, a better one comes along. :D

(though that last one was VERY pretty :nervous:)
 
ayn22 said:
salamoalaykum guys, i have been following your posts closing and taking them all in. wow alhamdulilah each response helps me in its own way! its so great to have such a supportive community...

well bad news.. today i was informed that he was 'engaged', after feeling rather disappointed, I realized that maybe this is false. I am not sure if this was the wisest decision, but I told another girl at work of my fondness for the polite gentleman toay. She told me I was in bad luck because he was engaged... yet, the gentleman does not wear any ring. But alhamdullah if he has found someone special may Allah bless them in this life in the next life.

Still, however, I am not sure of the legitimacy of this claim. I think I will make istikhara prayer tonight, inshallah, and may Allah guide me.

Thanks so much for your support guys, I really intend to keep everything halal and inshAllah I will be guided and increased in faith.

Jazakallahukhair
Ramadan kareem, Salam
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MashaAllah sis, I pray Allah increases you in knowledge, imaan and goodness. Ameen.

Muslims needn't wear engagement rings etc. So the absence of one doesn't mean anything. You should have asked the girl if she knows for sure or just assumes he is engaged. It's better to be sure. Why not confide in someone you can rely on and ask them to tell him that someone (no names mentioned) is interested in him and wants to know if he is spoken for? :)


AntiKarateKid said:
Tell me about it. I tried to approach a very nice Muslim girl who turns out... just had her nikkah.... lol. Yea I was deeply dissapointed, then angry, then remembered that everything happens for a reason. I prayed to Allah to grant me a good wife and I am sure He has heard me and is doing things His way.

Don't worry. Every time you think they are the perfect one then a couple months later or next year, a better one comes along. :D

(though that last one was VERY pretty :nervous:)
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lol aw (funny the way you put it)

May Allah replace the 'one that got away' with something better. Ameen :D
 

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