Love & Lust

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Love is Beautiful Gown of Lust

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I think you have chosen to define love in a very narrow margin.
love and lust are very separate animals -- further it would be interesting to see you take that definition and see how it applies to parents, siblings, children etc..

surely love can exist completely independent of physical needs...
lust is a basic need it is physical!
love is a highly evolved, refined emotion-- it isn't self-serving and there is nothing palpable to be gained from it!
 
but sister Skye, isn't it along the line of you loving someone because it feels good to make them feel good,,
meh, this is going in circles.
 
alcurad said:
but sister Skye, isn't it along the line of you loving someone because it feels good to make them feel good,,
meh, this is going in circles.
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You can't take the 'feeling good' to the bank!
 
love and lust are both necessary for a healthy marriage imo.
 
the brother said love is the GOWN of lust

ie love covers lust and makes its ugliness thereby making it lawful and good

rigHT?
 
Fighting4Iman said:
the brother said love is the GOWN of lust

ie love covers lust and makes its ugliness thereby making it lawful and good

rigHT?
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I mean to say people hide ugly face of their lust behind the beautiful mask of love
 
Love and lust are like darkness and light.

The feelings you experience in love are not lust but a physical manifestation of what is in your heart.

Lust is just basic animal instinct. It doesn't even touch upon love. It belongs to the body only. The two don't go together :hmm:
 
don't agree... what happened if the lust gone...the the love wouldn't be complete???

definitely don't agree. Love is not to show the lust but to show caring, loving, understanding, being nice, gentle and etc.
 
Lust has nothing to do with the natural desires that accompany love, Lust is just self satysfying urge. Love on the other hand is is the ability toput the welfare or conscern of another human being before the welfare of ones self. Becoming a parent or truly beleiving in Allah and Rasulullah (pbuh) is the best ways to experience it. Lust is a fleeting twist of emotion, Love is all encompassing and everlasting. So I would say, Lust is the seedy macintosh (rather than gown) of shatanic desires. Love needs no gown as itis beautiful enough already
 
Tony said:
Lust has nothing to do with the natural desires that accompany love, Lust is just self satysfying urge. Love on the other hand is is the ability toput the welfare or conscern of another human being before the welfare of ones self. Becoming a parent or truly beleiving in Allah and Rasulullah (pbuh) is the best ways to experience it. Lust is a fleeting twist of emotion, Love is all encompassing and everlasting. So I would say, Lust is the seedy macintosh (rather than gown) of shatanic desires. Love needs no gown as itis beautiful enough already
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The basic problem is that when man was created he was given a brain and another item but only enough blood to run one at a time.
 
barrio79 said:
The basic problem is that when man was created he was given a brain and another item but only enough blood to run one at a time.
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lol. well i dont agree but thats hella funny. Go watch cricket now, thats enough funny for one day. Peace
BTW how u manage to get -500 odd reps ???????????????
 
syilla said:
don't agree... what happened if the lust gone...the the love wouldn't be complete???

definitely don't agree. Love is not to show the lust but to show caring, loving, understanding, being nice, gentle and etc.
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lol but lust isn't a part of love in the first place

when I said lust is just an animal need, consider it like having an itch on your back that needs to be scratched. It's all about you. Your need. Your want. A selfish desire that wants to be satisfied, i.e. look at the lifestyle in some cultures where people go clubbing etc with lots of them ending up spending the night with strangers, astaghfirullah.. that is nasty lust. See the difference?


But love, it isn't about you. Yeh you wanna be loved back. But more than that you want to give love to the other person. That is nothing like lust.


The physical feelings in love, are still feelings borne from love. They are a part of love and stem from the heart and soul to resonate in the body. Lust doesn't come from the heart lol. Don't confuse the two, cuz lust is just +o( :offended:
 
Love comes with lust, however lust alone is worthless. I hope this sounds better.
 
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celina said:
Love is what is needed in a marriage because it has all the ingredients that makes a healthy relationship, some marriages only have lust and sometimes the husband/wife might mistaken it for love.
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Yes, its true but not answering the question at hand.
 
dilkadr said:
Yes, its true but not answering the question at hand.
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Why do I keep getting shut out on this forum? I think in my answer I have distinguished between love and lust. Lust is greed and love is a completely different thing its beautiful.
 
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