Lowerin da Gaze

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as u mite kno.................

ook mayb not

well as u NOW kno....

I learned tons of haram things from this foru--- what???!!! loool that didnt come out right!

I MEANNT ...i learned what are haram things....more than i knew before...so i know more baout haram things....

NOT how to do them or nothing...i learned that they r haram.........did that make sense now?

LIKE how music is haram....lowering the gaze....etc etc..

WELLL>......NOW i hava question bout the lowerin gaze....

WHO do u lower the gaze from?
by that i dont mean gimme this asa reply

Question: BY: Salma Salm Assalamu alaikum,
Who do we lower the gaze from?

Answer: Shiekh Muhammed something:
Your question is bla bla bla bla bla *wastes space to make it look like a biiig answer* and rasulallah said ________and )______ and _______
so u lower ur gaze from non mahrams, u can look at uncles , dads, brothers,and other mahrams...
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I mean...
Who...like i kno who...but who like....*sigh*...even if its easy to explain i cant explain it!! ......nevermind i fink its coz my brother is calling from his cellphone ...even tho he is juss down the stairs...telling me to make him food :exhausted...

wait....

*sigh* :exhausted:exhausted!!!

Finally
Ok
now i can think
Ok i mean like wut bout people at stores...like the cash register... i mean its like :

Ok time to go to the register to pay for all dis stuff!
*walks to register not looking at anything but ur fabulous new skateboarding shoes which are beautifully pink and white and SHIIINY*
not noticing the cash register dude is really a guy who has a black bandana on his mouth and head and has a leather jacket and bigg ak47 on his back ....wait... no...that doesnt even look right.... lets do this...
Not noticing the cash register dude is really some guy wita messy sick face and hair and a ak 47 on his back and blood on his hands...:D

so?

and wut bout on tv...wut if its a shiekh er somthing... like shiekh salim something?
u kno
?
stuff like dat. its like...
Hello I wold like to ask you about this really important car insurance but im too busy gazing at my shoes...
Ok sir wut ur name?
My name is Something Someone
Ok...look me in da eye now coz u look like u juss stole something
No im just lookin at my shoes..

Cmon seriously someone??
PLz tell me
JAzakallah khair



WaSalaam
 
^Lol actually I found this one quite funny! But yes sis your post could probably be reduced by atleast a third : P.


Your question is quite a valid one actually. Although we may be lowering our gaze going about our everyday life, in some of our professions we are required to maintain eye contact with customers/patients. How do we tackle this one?
 
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And yeh as bro Alpha Dude said, your post was quite rude.
 
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Looool I had to read your post ten times to understand it a little :D
but youre right its a thing we have to deal with it everyday
 
huh... i dnt see the point off posting all the extra bits.. quite anoying.. cud av deleted the extra ''bla bla bla'' :p lol.. buh nevamind :) lol

wel yeh good question thou
peace
 
its coz its like impossible explaining something to u people without u guys going and jumpin on me and deleting the freakin thread coz u read it wrong and all u people gettin tempers and make me say somehting i regret like wut i was about to post here but i didnt!

ima read that sis broken right now. jazakallah khair
WaSalaam
 
I got it first time...but I must play too many online games where they use textspeaK and talk in gibberish! :D (joke)

You want to know wether or not your supposed to lower your gaze from evry non-marham or if you can look at the till guy at Tescos as he asks if you want cashback?
 
asalam alaikum wr wb,

Sometimes, I think people make Islam harder for themselves. It's common sense to know that we have to look at someone when approaching or being approached - unless you like walking into people or lamposts then by all means keep your gaze permanently lowered. Lowering the gaze means observing haya and not staring/ogling and making unnecessary or prolonged eye contact which can be mistaken for showing interest in the person. And yes you are allowed to look at people when dealing with them in impersonal and formal situations.


wa alaikum asalam wr wb.
 
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barney said:
I got it first time...but I must play too many online games where they use textspeaK and talk in gibberish! :D (joke)

You want to know wether or not your supposed to lower your gaze from evry non-marham or if you can look at the till guy at Tescos as he asks if you want cashback?
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loool
yeh thats my question....

and heres my answer....

Muslimah_Sis said:
asalam alaikum wr wb,

Sometimes, I think people make Islam harder for themselves. It's common sense to know that we have to look at someone when approaching or being approached - unless you like walking into people or lamposts then by all means keep your gaze permanently lowered. Lowering the gaze means not to stare/ogle and make unnecessary or prolonged eye contact which can be mistaken for showing interest in the person. And yes you are allowed to look at people when dealing with them in impersonal and formal situations.


wa alaikum asalam wr wb.
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JAzakallah khair sis :)
dats all
at least ssssssomeone understands without gettin a temper :D
 
i kno but its hard to explain anything to u people so i gotta show examples and all dat so u guys can understand...unlike some of my other threads which u guys didnt understand so it ended up closed or deleted :rolleyes:


btw no not u lol :)
Jazakallah khair
WaSalaam
 
mannn i think it aint ryt to keep on saying that its hard 2 explain sumfin 2 ''yu people''...''yu guys''......
im sure evry1 understood but its just the extra bit you had n there was no point of it.. n sum peepz found it anoyin etc...thats all lol at the end of da day evryones gt da ryt 2 say how dey feel towards sumfin.. e.g. i think this threda whould be closed lol joke :P

i guess im getin bord slaaamz
 
Muslimah_Sis said:
Sometimes, I think people make Islam harder for themselves. It's common sense to know that we have to look at someone when approaching or being approached - unless you like walking into people or lamposts then by all means keep your gaze permanently lowered. Lowering the gaze means observing haya and not staring/ogling and making unnecessary or prolonged eye contact which can be mistaken for showing interest in the person. And yes you are allowed to look at people when dealing with them in impersonal and formal situations.
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Just to add to what the sisters has said here, you also have to lower your gaze if you feel any kind of attraction to the person. AND if the person is showing a part of their body that is haram for you to look at (such as a mans legs above the knees).
 
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why wud he say that seaside beaches are not good then ask if he is correct on a random thread??
 

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