Okay, friend I really don't know how to expalin this to you but I'll try. I do NOT believe that God seered Jesus; IOW, He didn't have intercourse with Mary. I am not exaclty sure how the Bible means it. I believe that God calls Jesus His "Beloved Son" I don't really understand how this is possible and I think the only reason this bothers Muslims is because it goes agianst the Quran, but if the Quran said Jesus is the son of God, they wouldn't have a problem with it either.
i really like your humility, it shows that there is hope,
what you would have to do if you had two pieces of gold both claiming to be 24 karat is put them to the acid test.
the acid test here would be to check which withstands the test of truth and which has had copper and brass mixed in it.
you said that if the Quran stated that Jesus (pbuh) was the son of God, we would believe it. that could only make sense if we could prove that nobody had added to it and that there were no alterations, then we'd either believe it to be the uncorrupted word of God, or we'd have to reject the authenticity of the Quran as having been corrupted thereby having to judge the statements therein with reason and not blind faith.
with the bible, i'm sure you are aware that many alterations have taken place, and even times, names, people and places have been changed to suit a supremacy objective:
after speaking of Ishmael Hajar and the well, it speaks of the sacrifice and the name isaac appears here and also the name jehovah which did not even exist at the time, indicating that someone long after Moses decided to take this course:
And
Abraham called the name of that place
Jehovahjireh: as it is said to this day, In the mount of the LORD it shall be seen.
Genesis 22:14
And God spake unto Moses, and said unto him, I am the LORD:
And I appeared unto Abraham, unto Isaac, and unto Jacob,
by the name of God Almighty,
but by my name JEHOVAH was I not known to them.
And I have also established my covenant with them, to give them the land of Canaan, the land of their pilgrimage, wherein they were strangers.
Exodus 6:2-4
we can see here that the name Jehovah could only have been added to Genesis after the codename was given to Moses (pbuh).
then we have the last chapter of deuteronomy which was written long after Moses:
And the south, and the plain of the valley of Jericho, the city of palm trees, unto Zoar.
4And the LORD said unto him, This is the land which I sware unto Abraham, unto Isaac, and unto Jacob, saying, I will give it unto thy seed:
I have caused thee to see it with thine eyes, but thou shalt not go over thither.
So Moses the servant of the LORD died there in the land of Moab, according to the word of the LORD.
And he buried him in a valley in the land of Moab, over against Bethpeor: but no man knoweth of his sepulchre unto this day.
And Moses was an hundred and twenty years old when he died: his eye was not dim, nor his natural force abated.
And the children of Israel wept for Moses in the plains of Moab thirty days: so the days of weeping and mourning for Moses were ended.
.......And there arose not a prophet since in Israel like unto Moses, whom the LORD knew face to face,
i was speaking to a Jewish man once and asked him if the 5 books of the pentateuch had been revealed to Moses (pbuh) and he replied in the affirmative, i asked him if anyone had added to them and he said: no.
i then asked him to check his bible and explain those verses, he tried telling me it that some scholars said that part was by Joshua (indicating that it had been added to and was not revealed to Moses (pbuh).
however it is clear that it couldnt have been by Joshua as Joshua would have known where he buried him, the emphasis in the addition is "to this day".
showing it was a long time afterwards.
there are many others which you can see here:
In the twelfth year of Joram the son of Ahab king of Israel did Ahaziah the son of Jehoram king of Judah begin to reign.
Two and twenty years old was Ahaziah when he began to reign; and he reigned one year in Jerusalem. And his mother's name was Athaliah, the daughter of Omri king of Israel.
2 kings 8:25-26
And it came to pass, that in process of time, after the end of two years, his bowels fell out by reason of his sickness: so he died of sore diseases. And his people made no burning for him, like the burning of his fathers.
Thirty and two years old was he when he began to reign, and he reigned in Jerusalem eight years, and departed without being desired. Howbeit they buried him in the city of David, but not in the sepulchres of the kings.
And the inhabitants of Jerusalem made Ahaziah his youngest son king in his stead: for the band of men that came with the Arabians to the camp had slain all the eldest. So Ahaziah the son of Jehoram king of Judah reigned.
Forty and two years old was Ahaziah when he began to reign, and he reigned one year in Jerusalem. His mother's name also was Athaliah the daughter of Omri
2 chronicles 21:19-2 chronicles 22:2
first we see the discrepancy in the age of the son, one saying 22 the other saying 42.
then we see that the father reigned from the age of 32 and died 8 years later, making him 40 when he dies.
and then they made his son Ahaziah the king and this man is 42 according to the same narrative.
now ask yourself, how are 22 and 42 the same thing,
or can the son be two years older than the father?
we believe that neither Almighty God, nor the Holy Spirit make these mistakes, and that these are done by the hands of men.
the purpose here is not to wrangle and push at each other, but it will then give you a basis on which to decide which to believe.
and also which makes sense.
you may have been told that these are scribal errors, but the fact that different bibles have whole sections added and subtracted, and many subtracting others as "apocraphy" ie fabrication shows that there is a lot more to it than that.
i was once having a friendly conversation with a christian man whom i know and he told me that it is the complete word of God without error,
i asked him which version was the one without the errors and he got a little bit flustered at me.
But because of their breach of their covenant, We cursed them, and made their hearts grow hard;
they change the words from their (right) places and forget a good part of the message that was sent them,
nor wilt thou cease to find them- barring a few - ever bent on (new) deceits: but forgive them, and overlook (their misdeeds): for Allah loveth those who are kind.
From those, too, who call themselves Christians, We did take a covenant, but they forgot a good part of the message that was sent them: so we estranged them, with enmity and hatred between the one and the other, to the day of judgment. And soon will Allah show them what it is they have done.
Quran 5:13-14