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Salaam.

What? What about those who can't smoke under 16? That discrimination too? It's for their own good.
 
exactly

its discrimination

i think we shuld let every1 ask qs as long as its okay.

there r no such things as stupid qs.

we should help each other out instead of looking down on each other.

the only thing i dont like is if its not islam related and sometimes u make such topics too Z such as "favorite pizza"


masalama
 
Salaam.

You see, that topic was created because of the topics which were going round at the time. Pointless. Get the idea? Guess not.

This board needs a new agenda. Another one.
 
sonz said:
exactly

its discrimination

i think we shuld let every1 ask qs as long as its okay.

there r no such things as stupid qs.

we should help each other out instead of looking down on each other.

the only thing i dont like is if its not islam related and sometimes u make such topics too Z such as "favorite pizza"


masalama
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Yes-

There is no such thing as a stupid question

We all must learn

Thats what this forum is all about...right???:?

Helping each other

SaLaMz
 
Salaam.

If these questions were asked, and for some reason discussed on till someone starts flirting in the topic and then gets back on it, how long does it take to answer? 100 replies? 200 replies? Surely the questions must've been answered by then, yet the topics are still open. Open for more discussion. Can't they just be closed?

Salaam.

I don't know what you can learn by asking other people if they would marry a woman who can't cook. Guess some people have not yet opened their eyes yet.
 
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salam
this thread is turning more into a comments and suggestions thread, if you have a say then say it all once, there is no need to drag it so much by replying many times
barakallah feekum
wasalam
 
Z said:
Salaam.

You see, that topic was created because of the topics which were going round at the time. Pointless. Get the idea? Guess not.

This board needs a new agenda. Another one.
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good excuse....NOT

so many topics were deleted cuz of u just like the aishwarya topic whic was totaly pointless and doesnt belong in muslim forum.

all am saying is. first look at urself before u comment about other people. ur so synical
 
aint a bad idea...think us youngsters visit the mariage section to much and dunno what we talk about...guess 16 is a good age although ppl mature and come to understanding at different ages.....
 
Salaam.

You're right, sapphire. A better idea would be allow all members equal right to ask their question even if they are weird, and discussed for too long, the topic should be closed right away.

Too long would be when members start doing a little flirting.

I think the moderators and admins know the case now, and hopefully they came come to a conclusion.
 
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I don't mind people asking questions, but come on. Why the heck would [edited] want to know all this stuff about marriage - the stuff they are asking they won't need to know for atleast 10 more years anyway, by then they would have matured enough to know the answer making the question pointless in the first place unless of course it is a serious question and not a hypothetical one (much like the ones found in the marriage sub-section).

Look, I already posted some of the marriage forum stats. It's ridiculously huge - probably has more topics/threads in it than any other sub-forum. And with evidence from a recent poll, majority of the users on this forum are pretty young (i'm talking 10 onwards - 10!) Alot of these members have such fantasies about marriage - it's considerably harder than what you have read on the fairy tales, let me assure you. Jeez, there's like a crapload you have to do before the marriage, even more to do whilst getting married and god-knows how much AFTER your married. So chill out young'uns.

There is a time and place for knowledge of marriage. It's called a year before you get engaged. Or 20 mins before nikah.... if you are really unlucky. :)
 
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Z said:
Salaam.Ok, maybe not limit who can create topics in that forum, but I most certainly think each topic should be reviewed carefully and it must serve a purpose. A proper one, and not the like the ones we see right now.
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Jazakallahu Khayr for bringing this issue to our attention. I agree with you completely that the marriage section does tend to to produce many unbeneficial or unnecessary threads/posts.

It would help the staff on the forum if members first thought about the thread they create and the posts which they send forward BEFORE actually doing so. So with staff checking threads in a combined effort with members taking control of their own actions, I believe the forum can head towards improvement.

Thankyou all for your concern and advice; Insha'Allaah we will take this on board and keep more eyes on the section.

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Halima said:
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I agree it is natural and they do have to learn but I mean come on, not to ask such questions that require common sense. The whole jist of that section is to generate benefical topics of what marriage in Islam is all about. Seriously its like right now you can go into that section and ask the questions as if one is already looking for a marriage partner. This marriage section is not made to present publically which qualites you are looking for in a spouse or which qualities that you have to offer. No. If one wants to get married then go to a mosque but not to ask random common sense type questions here.


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I think that we should remember that what is common sense to adults isn't always common sense for teens. Also, even though a question like " would anyone marry a woman who doesn't cook?" is kinda silly, it could be that the person is feeling inadequate. I sometimes have those moments ( but i save those questions for sisters at the masjid, lol!;D )
 

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