Marriage in Islam?
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Goooodddd thingssss....you wanna be rewarded for pending your time wisely, not wasting it .... well actually you could be rewarded for providing for ya fam but dont let the dough make u do crazy things....Noo
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salaam ma alaykum
i think its best to take people for face value, like dont indulge into too much, like when you meet someone, dont think omg his/eyes were so weirdy, they was thinkin somethin evill, erm maybe they cross eyed
also trust, that comes along with gettin to know the person, like we know Allah (Swt) and look how much we trust him, even our parents, so trust comes along with time. like many people might find someone attractive, but it dont mean that person is trustworthy innit, like all promises like bla bla il be there for you till the end, il break the moon and give it to you as a gift, lol they sound nice, but lets wake up and smell the coffee or dr pepper when your involved in a relationship before marriage, you know if its haraam there can only be 3 consequences, either you get found out by your rents lol and get deported back , you end up get married, or you end up callin it off, so dont base yourself on past experiences akhi, like look @ people at first, like "you hang up the phone 1st, no no darlin you hang it up, no no i want to hear your voice last" and then like 2 weeks later, "hey, erm im bit busy bye" 
so dont base yourself on others or past experiences, your a individual, everyday you meet and learn new, so ooo yeah
also money, let me give you this scenario, when you blow your nose, go toilet, clean crap from the floor, you use paper (tissues) that same paper is used for money, so treat money as it should be treated a piece of paper, nothin important
i think its best to take people for face value, like dont indulge into too much, like when you meet someone, dont think omg his/eyes were so weirdy, they was thinkin somethin evill, erm maybe they cross eyed
also trust, that comes along with gettin to know the person, like we know Allah (Swt) and look how much we trust him, even our parents, so trust comes along with time. like many people might find someone attractive, but it dont mean that person is trustworthy innit, like all promises like bla bla il be there for you till the end, il break the moon and give it to you as a gift, lol they sound nice, but lets wake up and smell the coffee or dr pepper
when your involved in a relationship before marriage, you know if its haraam there can only be 3 consequences, either you get found out by your rents lol and get deported back , you end up get married, or you end up callin it off, so dont base yourself on past experiences akhi, like look @ people at first, like "you hang up the phone 1st, no no darlin you hang it up, no no i want to hear your voice last" and then like 2 weeks later, "hey, erm im bit busy bye" so dont base yourself on others or past experiences, your a individual, everyday you meet and learn new, so ooo yeahalso money, let me give you this scenario, when you blow your nose, go toilet, clean crap from the floor, you use paper (tissues) that same paper is used for money, so treat money as it should be treated a piece of paper, nothin important
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when your involved in a relationship before marriage, you know if its haraam there can only be 3 consequences,
also money, let me give you this scenario, when you blow your nose, go toilet, clean crap from the floor, you use paper (tissues) that same paper is used for money, so treat money as it should be treated a piece of paper, nothin important
British cash is not made out of paper mate!!!
Do you watch Sharah TV ??
Anyway.....Imam Aajmal Masroor was on there.....he said going with the opposite sex in a public place without bad intentions is fine.but as soon as you ether a room only with you 2 online its haram......
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lol i dunno if its paper but you get my drift
imam ajmal is my local imam he calls me young man:embarrass, he is kool
and shariah tv.. that show annoys me, anyway if you dont have be together then you dont have to, like im sure if someone gav the scenario, can i "chill" with my friends who are females in public, can i do that? im sure anyone would advice againist it
actions are based upon intentions, also we shouldnt undermine shaytan he might sound like a annoyin troll lol, but he can easilyy mislead the strongest of us
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lol i dunno if its paper but you get my drift
imam ajmal is my local imam he calls me young man:embarrass, he is kool
Imam Ajmal Masoor? is the imam in your mosuqe???????? so lucky!!
It is scary thinking about marriage, and what your wife might do lol and obviously you fear that she might not be the way you want her to. I also felt really scared as you don't know what to expect, until I came across this hadith that Allah promises to help a person in 3 situations, one of which is someone who looks to marry to help them in their religion. Subhanallaah! So if your intentions are pure then do istikhara, put your trust in Allah and have no worries inshaallaah
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I would say this kinda applies to me.