we don't one on one study. we study together in class or in study groups.
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we don't one on one study. we study together in class or in study groups.
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OK. That's fine. The way you wrote it, it sounded like it was one on one.
everyone has their own opinion, but i think its rude if you tell someone they're kafir.
sister, it may be rude but it is true. i can show you all the proofs you need. they are 100% kafir and if you enter into any relationship with him and he does not reject ahmadiyyat and accept islam, you will be committing zina.
but i don't understand WHY other people have the right to call them kafir. doesn't it say in islam that you don't have the right to call other people kafirs if they recite the kalima. im sorry i don't mean to be defensive or anything but i just need answers.
you can call a kafir a kafir. shaytan recites the kalima, does he not?
listen, if you don't believe Muhammad(saw) was the last messenger and prophet and you take guidance from others than him, you are a kafir.
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Everyone understands that but this is clear cut by the majority of scholars, they are not considered muslim.
It looks to me you don't take islam seriously otherwise you'd be very worried about a future with an ahmadi. If your children grow up as ahmadis then you're gonna be liable. You should be marrying a person for their deen, what blessings are you going to have in a marriage where you consider someone being an ahmadi as just a 'nitty gritty detail'?
but he says they beleive that the prophet muhammad (pbuh) was the last prophet to bring a new shariah.
they do not beleive that mirza ghulam ahmad was a prophet, rather a reformer of the prophet muhammad (pbuh) as he did not bring a new shariah law.
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They believe that mirza ghulam ahmad was given divine revelation. This is quite frankly, rubbish.
ill be honest with you, i grew up in a western society so i am not the best muslim out there. i do try though.
i like this guy a lot, and it does not concern me if hes ahmaddi as he is a good person at heart. i dont mean to sound childish or blinded by love but its just how it is. he is actually a good person.
our basic beleifs are the same. the beleif in one god, beleiving in the angels, the holy books, the prophets etc.
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Are these supposed to be wow factors? Of course he's meant to believe in praying these are the basics of islam.
Did you know that ahmadis also eat haram meat?
Sis I think you should start practising and marry a good practising sunni muslim, majority about 80% of muslims are sunni. That way islam will be present in your marriage and it will be blessed, if you go down this path you're gonna have a messed up marriage and life. Consider your deen before you make such decisions.
but if he was sent down for the reformation of man kind, by god, then how else is god supposed to speak to him/ help him etc.?
this is the danger of freemixing and allowing yourself to get feelings for someone in a haraam manner. he can be a good person all he wants but he is not muslim and Allah told us that muslimahs can only marry muslims.
from what i know, him and his family buy their meat from a halal shop. there is an afghan shop here, the only halal shop in the whole city, its quite far too, but they go there especially to buy their meat.
but im at uni, how else am i supposed to study without 'free mixing'?
and having feelings for someone is inevitable. you cant help it.
he says and beleives he is a muslim though. that's what im trying to get at.. he SAYS that he is. i cant tell him hes not.
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Thought so. Most of us here are from this 'western' society you speak of, its not hard and it doesnt look like you're even trying.
On qiyamah is Allah going to accept you marrying him because he was a 'good person' but not even muslim? you get plenty of people like yourself coming on here so blinded that they overlook a huge part of their life which is deen, that shows its just a bit of lust.
SubhanAllah, Is that all islam is to you? and is there more than one holy book?
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But he wasn't. Rasulullah (saws) was the seal of the prophets, the Qur'an is the last guidance for mankind before Yawn-al-Qiyamah and that's all there is to it. Please watch those videos convert posted for an in depth discussion, and you'll see it's Allah who guides the Muslims to the truth, which is Islam and not the Ahmadiyya sect.
if i wasn't trying, i wouldn't be on here.
well what im saying is, and im not too fond of it either, but im not the best muslim out there. my parents have been working full time ever since i was young so i was never taught anything.. i grew up with all white people, mostly christians.. so what i do know about islam is what i've looked up for myself and did my own research on.. and THIS is why i dont know much about it, hence im here because i would like to get to know it better.
no im sorry, theres only one holy book, that was a typo. i apologize for that.
