Right, so lets say we are having a conversation about Saddam Hussain.
I point out his slaughter of 350000 of his own people still under the desert sands. I say that the man was evil and disgusting.
You respond with " Ahh! But Hitler was WORSE!"
It's a really bad analogy, because Saddam is still a muslim, so you probably like him, and Hitler killed 6 million jews, (which you may think is wonderful....unless it's being used to boost sympathy for Iseral....In which case it diddnt happen!)
All you have to say here is "Yeah, sure, Killing kids deliberatly is not nice...it may be even a bit evil. I know that the Taliban love a bit of Flogging and beheading for no good reason, and I'm not in support of it
Regardless, The US and UK dropping 1000 lb bombs on military targets is utterly different from a crazed quran weilding lunatic blowing up schoolkids Deliberatly. Or indeed flying a few planes into buildings.
I have no doubts that The US has killed many civilians since 2001. I also have no doubts that they have tried to target those who they are fighting rather than just deliberatly killing the innocent.
This is something that you can never beleive because of a lifeime of being taught to hate us.
We dont hate you though...heck..the christians even LOVE you! Which is a bit gay to be honest , but theyre all actually really nice.
Take a step back from your hate, and look at the reasons for your troubles.