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Zahida said:
:sl: You are confusig us all......... but just giving you my opinion BOTH are equally important for one another.....

Reading your thread reminded me of the eathquake in Pakistan ther was a story covering a little gir 8/9 years of age who had been pulled out after 3 days. They couldn't find her mother and the child was crying for her mum 'Our mum can't live without us she lived for us what are we going to do....' I will never forget that child.


If death is involved however then Allah gives you suber. I have experienced both scenarios. My brother lost a chil, although they still remember him, they have their other children and continue with life.
My sister passed away and left 5 children. There mum can never be replaced. They have us but it's not the same and they too carry on as best they can. That was the most heartbreaking thing i had to experience in my life, losing my sister, a mother her child (my mum) :w::-\and then her children losing their mother
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Im terribly sorry to hear that, I admire you for helpingyou look after you neice/nephews.
 
:sl: Thankyou. But life is like that full of ups and downs......... downs more than ups and I am no hero i have only tried to do what any other human with a bit of humanity in them would do in such situations........... although honestly it breaks my heart. My niece the eldest sometimes phones me and we talk/cry for hours she misses her mum so much and has resentment also.......... I really feel for........she has the most responsibility being the eldest.............:cry::w:
buddy1 said:
Im terribly sorry to hear that, I admire you for helpingyou look after you neice/nephews.
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Im sure she does, that so sad, I realy feel for you all.

Touch wood my babies never lose me before the time is right, i probably need them more than they need me!! they are the legs to my table and I expect your sister saw her babies the same way. it must be awful it really must.
 
:sl: May Allah grant you along healthy and happy life with your babies..... I know that when mine are out of sight it's like a part of me is missing. My son is in year 6 and going on a schooltrip to Wales for 5 days!!!!!!!!!! I miss him already...........imsad:w:
buddy1 said:
Im sure she does, that so sad, I realy feel for you all.

Touch wood my babies never lose me before the time is right, i probably need them more than they need me!! they are the legs to my table and I expect your sister saw her babies the same way. it must be awful it really must.
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Zahida said:
:sl: May Allah grant you along healthy and happy life with your babies..... I know that when mine are out of sight it's like a part of me is missing. My son is in year 6 and going on a schooltrip to Wales for 5 days!!!!!!!!!! I miss him already...........imsad:w:
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Oh Im dreading that, I have 3 baba's, Jayda, Jordan (they are twins) and Alyssa.

Jayda and Jordan are only 4 so I have a little while to prepare for school trips away from home.

Alyssa is 4 weeks old on saturday so I have more than enuff time, will probably be trying to pack her in the twins suitcase when they go on school trips away by then!!!

but atleast the twins have someone with them when they go away, i guess thats a bonus!! :D
 
Zahida said:
Reading your thread reminded me of the eathquake in Pakistan ther was a story covering a little gir 8/9 years of age who had been pulled out after 3 days. They couldn't find her mother and the child was crying for her mum 'Our mum can't live without us she lived for us what are we going to do....' I will never forget that child.
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Wow... SubhanAllah...
 
:sl: I agree, i used to sit there and watch howling like a banshee and my husband telling me off!!!

I wonder if they ever found that little girls mum....

I was so emotional at the time that i wanted to go to Pakistan. My husband wouldn't let me.
Then i had made up my mind i was going to go and adopt one of these babies......... There was a programme on Geo recently and still thousands of families have missing, mothers, fathers, brothers, son, daughters?????

But things are brighter now the programme showed how the aid has been used and maybe the quality of life for some of the children has improved..:cry: Still very sad.:w:
 
it depends. if it's to do with life and death like in the abortion situation then i'd choos the mother.
If i was a mum i could never choose between my mum or my child so i'd leave it to Allah to decide. i wudn't give one up, i'd rather sacrifice myself and there is no way i'd choose my child over my mother...u can get another child insha'Allah but u can't replace ur mother. not the one hu carried u and brought u up when she cud have left u to die. the one hu has more right on u than ur children.

why hav u made this thread sis? Just wondering. that's a really hard choice but since ive only got mummy and no child im definitely voting mum. if i had a kid i dont think i'd vote at all lol!
 
Ramlah said:
:sl:
okay, i guess i should explain just a little:
a situation, lets say war...a mother and child are at risk...of loosing each other.
for you (as either the mother or child), what would be the most emotional situation to describe (vebally, writing, etc): that of the mother, or that of the child?
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:wasalamex,

In that case, I would still choose mother because usually mother's have deeper emotions when it comes to this, though maybe we just perceive children to not have the same emotions because they are not that understanding. Allahu A'lam.

With the mother, you can describe her feelings, but with the child it would have to do more with events rather than thoughts and feelings, though you could do thoughts and feelings but you'd have to think like a child :p.

Wassalam.
 
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Z-Blade said:
:wasalamex,

In that case, I would still choose mother because usually mother's have deeper emotions when it comes to this, though maybe we just perceive children to not have the same emotions because they are not that understanding. Allahu A'lam.

With the mother, you can describe her feelings, but with the child it would have to do more with events rather than thoughts and feelings, though you could do thoughts and feelings but you'd have to think like a child :p.

Wassalam.
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interesting point. jazakallahu khair.


barakallahu feekum
 
I was confused by the first post but after all the posts I'm lost

chose mother btw
 

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