Motherz Day!!

[truemuslim]

^ ok sis
well the prophet didnt celebrate (celebrate= respect for this ...) mothers day coz 1. he was an orphan and 2. THYE DIDNT INVENT IT YET!!

wut bout cars? eh?
rasulallah said we should ride camels, time passes. camels are converted to convertibles, and now we ride cars. oh...or are u gonna claim that haram too?

sorry but cops here got temmpers so i dunt fink dey gna be okey wit camels in da streets...

 

[Nσσя'υℓ Jαииαн]

THYE DIDNT INVENT IT YET!!

What? There's no such thing as inventing festivals or holidays in Islam. Thats called bid'ah. And sorry if you thought I didnt know the Rasool(saw) was an orphan (sarcasm).

rasulallah said we should ride camels, time passes. camels are converted to convertibles, and now we ride cars. oh...or are u gonna claim that haram too?

Excuse me? That has nothing to do with holidays or festivals. Camels were a use of transportation and so are vehicles. And as for expensive cars...those are useless if you buy a car because it has such and such speed or style. It's excessive. I would appreciate it if you didnt make assumptions sister. That wasnt even as close to what i was thinking.
I will no longer discuss this with you because you are somewhat behaving rudely and I dont wish to do that with a sister in Islam....

Sooo later'sz...

 

['Abd-al Latif]

Juss so u kno mothers day cant be haram. all it is is giving ur mom respect that she deserves and thank her for it on this special day more than u already do. dont think its a biigass party wit beer and music and friends. its not a festival. not a party. not a celebration...just a thanks.
god wuts up...
nevermind...
Jazakalalh khair
WaSalaam

The Prophet (saws) said: "Whoever imitates a people is one of them."

Islam only has two celebrations and they are the two 'eids. People shouldn't take one day out of 365 days to show appriceation to their mothers. Rather, the muslim shows kindness and love everyday of the year.

Don't imitate the misguided. This is their celebration and we are commanded to be different from them. Muslims should feel no need to imitate them in such ways, when Allah has commanded us to honour our mothers and has forbidden us to disobey them, and has made the reward for that (for obeying them) the highest status.

"Worship Allah and join none with Him (in worship); and do good to parents, kinsfolk, orphans, Al-Masaakeen (the poor), the neighbour who is near of kin, the neighbour who is a stranger, the companion by your side, the wayfarer (you meet), and those (slaves) whom your right hands possess. Verily, Allah does not like such as are proud and boastful"
[al-Nisa’ 4:36]

And Allah says:

"And your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him. And that you be dutiful to your parents. If one of them or both of them attain old age in your life, say not to them a word of disrespect, nor shout at them but address them in terms of honour"
[al-Isra’ 17:23]

It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah (r.a) said: "A man came to the Messenger of Allaah (saaws) and said: 'O Messenger of Allaah, who among the people is most deserving of my good company?' He said, 'Your mother.' He asked, 'Then who?' He said, 'Your mother.' He asked, 'Then who?' He said, 'Your mother.' He asked, 'Then who?' He said, 'Then your father.'"

(Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5626; Muslim, 2548)

Islam commands one to do much better then those people who are disobdient to their parents throughout the year and take mothers day and fathers day as an excuse to be kind to them for once. So ignore this misguidence, because your duty is to her is everyday of the year.

 

[Nσσя'υℓ Jαииαн]

^^ Yea that basically sums it up InshaAllah...

 

[truemuslim]

*sigh*

oh im so sorry everybody that i dont thank my mom for everything she has done for me and that i made biiig duas for her (and all of u :mmokay
my wrong
:exhausted

*sigh*

Mu'minah421, just send me when ur done in PM plz. Jazakallah khair sis

 

[Nσσя'υℓ Jαииαн]

No one is saying anything against you, but rather you seem to have a had problem because I asked. I don't understand why, but I will just let it slide. End of story.

 

[truemuslim]

yehh....ok

first of all...Is there anything wrong with giving ur mom a beautiful poem to show her how much u care even tho u didnt write it???????? I fink NOT....wut do u tink?

 

[Nσσя'υℓ Jαииαн]

Sister, please for love of Allah. If you dont want to listen, its up to you. I wanted to know, thats ALL. Someone else can answer you.

 

[MinAhlilHadeeth]

yehh....ok

first of all...Is there anything wrong with giving ur mom a beautiful poem to show her how much u care even tho u didnt write it???????? I fink NOT....wut do u tink?

:salamext:

Why give your mother a poem on this day especially? You can do that on any day. If you want to appreciate your mother, than obey her when she oders you with something permissible, and show kindness towards her at all times.

By the way, earlier you said the Messenger of Allaah salAllaahu 'alayhi wa Sallam told us to ride camels. This is not true, and if it is, then please bring the hadeeth.

And as 'Ali radhiyAllaahu 'anhu stated;

"If religion was based on the intellect, then the bottom of the leather sock would be more deserving to be wiped than the top."
[Reported by Aboo Dawood (162), Shaykh al-Albaanee declared this narration authentic in al-Irwaa (103).

Meaning, the religion is based upon that which is reported in the Qur'aan and Sunnah, not on the rationality or intellect of Mankind. So although this seems harmless to you ukhtee, the Prophet salAllaahu 'alayhi wa Sallam clearly said that there are only two celebrations in Islaam, and they are the two Eids. So taking part in this innovated celebration in any way is not only an innovation, it is also a form of immitating the disbelievers. And Allaah knows best.

 

[Asper]

yehh....ok

first of all...Is there anything wrong with giving ur mom a beautiful poem to show her how much u care even tho u didnt write it???????? I fink NOT....wut do u tink?

There is certainly nothing wrong with making dua'a for your mama, or me, or anyone. Jazakallah for doing so.

But your choice in not only giving the day (or your beloved mama) an specific interest when it does not warrant it (the day that is. your mama deserves praise for how she has raised you every as you and I both know ), but as well as trying to avoid and conceal the truth in the forbidding of acknowledging the day. That is what the issue was.

 

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:salamext:

Why give your mother a poem on this day especially? You can do that on any day. If you want to appreciate your mother, than obey her when she oders you with something permissible, and show kindness towards her at all times.

By the way, earlier you said the Messenger of Allaah salAllaahu 'alayhi wa Sallam told us to ride camels. This is not true, and if it is, then please bring the hadeeth.

And as 'Ali radhiyAllaahu 'anhu stated;

"If religion was based on the intellect, then the bottom of the leather sock would be more deserving to be wiped than the top."
[Reported by Aboo Dawood (162), Shaykh al-Albaanee declared this narration authentic in al-Irwaa (103).

Meaning, the religion is based upon that which is reported in the Qur'aan and Sunnah, not on the rationality or intellect of Mankind. So although this seems harmless to you ukhtee, the Prophet salAllaahu 'alayhi wa Sallam clearly said that there are only two celebrations in Islaam, and they are the two Eids. So taking part in this innovated celebration in any way is not only an innovation, it is also a form of immitating the disbelievers. And Allaah knows best.

:salamext:

Agreed.

Now someone please CLOSE this thread









































:threadclo

 

[truemuslim]

I kno u supposed to respect her everyday all the time...
BUT what harm would it do if u do extra care, respect, and give her a nice gift on this one day??

 

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:salamext:

Because ur following the way of thE KAAFIR!!! The KAAFIR will be in the hell fire!!

 

[truemuslim]

God u so obsessed with closing thread :raging:

FINE
close it.
i dunt care
all i wanted was an arabic translation for that nasheed!!
Mu'minah421 if u didnt see my other post coz its been flooded back there with all the other posts then i say again. when u done plz PM me . And Jazakallah khair sis mu'minah421

 

[InToTheRain]

Assalamualaikum Wa Rahmatullah,

Our guidance is perfect and nothing should be added to it and subtracted from it. It is not this Mothers day that has taught me to love and respect my Mother but the Qur'an and Sunnah. You can give your mother the poetry card and it's good to give presents from time to time, just don't do it on mothers day. The Du3 is far better and seriously, if you need a card or poetry to make your mother happy or feel special then their is something wrong with the relationship, I think the Hug should be abused or maybe a foot message or something.

You are commanded by Islam to love and obey your parants always especially the Mother and by celebrating Mothers day it's like your admitting that your can treat your Mother better in some ways and that Islam doesn't teach you these values.

Besides we only celebrate the 2 Eids, no bdays, Mday, Dday etc and any other niche ideas which can earn you a quick buck if your in the retail industry.

 

[truemuslim]

:salamext:

Because ur following the way of thE KAAFIR!!! The KAAFIR will be in the hell fire!!

Oh ok
So since kaafirs respect there mums then i shudnt, i should be like my brothes and go cuss at her then leave, i shud be like my brothers friends and do bad things, since kaafirs live, i wont live....since kaafirs have faith then i wont have faith :X oops

 

[MinAhlilHadeeth]

Oh ok
So since kaafirs respect there mums then i shudnt, i should be like my brothes and go cuss at her then leave, i shud be like my brothers friends and do bad things, since kaafirs live, i wont live....since kaafirs have faith then i wont have faith :X oops

Sister, you do realise it's kufr to make istihzaa' (mockery) of the deen? The Prophet salAllaahu 'alayhi wa Sallam said; 'Whoever immitates a people, he is one of them.'

No, having respect for your mother is an obligation. It is part of Islaam. However, copying the Kuffaar in that which is not a part of our deen is not permissible.

And Kuffaar do have faith, just not in Islaam (or all of it, atleast). So your last sentance is really unbelievable. A'oodhubillaah, sister please repent from that statement. This deen is not a joke.

But if you are determined upon that which you believe, there's no point in continuing with this conversation.

 

[truemuslim]

U fink am mocking our deen?!?!?!
OMGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG
Before i type something i regret ima leave right now
Okey?
Ok
WaSalaam

 

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:salamext:

Cya.

 

['Abd-al Latif]

Sisters please calm down. The Prophet (saaws) said not to argue, even if you are right. Guidence is up to Allah and she will be accountable for what she says or does but keep each other safe from your hands and from your tongues.

People will not accept or benefit from your knowledge if you don't have good manners.

w/salam