Muslim female (best friend) lost virginity

talibilm said:
:sl: scimi you are right brother and the following hadith proves it



And some more hadiths on these issue which even the knowledgeable of our times sometimes overlook


Malik :: Book 41 : Hadith 41.1.2

Malik related to me from Yahya ibn Said from Said ibn al-Musayyab that a man from the Aslam tribe came to Abu Bakr as-Siddiq and said to him, "I have committed adultery." Abu Bakr said to him, "Have you mentioned this to anyone else?" He said, "No." Abu Bakr said to him, "Then cover it up with the veil of Allah. Allah accepts tawba from his slaves." His self was still unsettled, so he went to Umar ibn al-Khattab. He told him the same as he had said to Abu Bakr, and Umar told him the same as Abu Bakr had said to him. His self was still not settled so he went to the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and said to him, "I have committed adultery," insistently. The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, turned away from him three times. Each time the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, turned away from him until it became too much. The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, questioned his family, "Does he have an illness which affects his mind, or is he mad ?" They said, "Messenger of Allah, by Allah, he is well." The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Unmarried or married?" They said, "Married, Messenger of Allah." The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, gave the order and he was stoned.




next hadith to the above the same incident of the Aslam tribe

Malik :: Book 41 : Hadith 41.1.3

Malik related to me from Yahya ibn Said that Said ibn al-Musayyab said, "I have heard that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said to a man from the Aslam tribe called Hazzal, 'Hazzal, had you veiled him with your cloak, it would have been better for you.' "
Yahya ibn Said said, "I related this hadith in an assembly among whom was Yazid ibn Nuaym ibn Hazzal al-Aslami. Yazid said, 'Hazzal was my grandfather. This hadith is true.' "
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ASA,

JAK i will definitely take the advice and I will tell my friend not to expose herself to anyone.

I appreciate this

May Allah give you the best and health and wealth

Ameen. JAK
 
Secret!!!! how can it be secret when you said that publicily !!!!!
These days muslims women ...i hate them...for this person...i didnot want to look at women for dheen...i hope to get someone dheeny...which is Rare....
 
Shamnadanu said:
Secret!!!! how can it be secret when you said that publicily !!!!!
These days muslims women ...i hate them...for this person...i didnot want to look at women for dheen...i hope to get someone dheeny...which is Rare....
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She did not reveal the identity of the person or information leading to finding out who that person is. Exposing a person and asking someone for advice regarding a person are two different things.

As for Muslim women comment, it takes two to tango. If you are going to hate the Muslim women then hate the Muslim men as well for taking these women as girlfriends to do haram. I blame the parents more, had their done their job and raised the kids islamically and given them proper islamic education then they wouldn't get into this haram stuff no mater how old they get.
 
aaj said:
She did not reveal the identity of the person or information leading to finding out who that person is. Exposing a person and asking someone for advice regarding a person are two different things.

As for Muslim women comment, it takes two to tango. If you are going to hate the Muslim women then hate the Muslim men as well for taking these women as girlfriends to do haram. I blame the parents more, had their done their job and raised the kids islamically and given them proper islamic education then they wouldn't get into this haram stuff no mater how old they get.
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In my locality...there are muslim sisters who dont like me at all...instead they got non muslim boys as friends...among one of sisters...i fall in love...for that reason they completely made me for hatred...i was asking her hand for dheeny life...so i was advicing them not to get friendship from those boys...because i knew their intentions...later i do dawah to all boys and earned their distress ...they too me in a way and see me as a foolish person...2 years ago..this happened...i got deppression.....pls Do dua for me to get over
 
aaj said:
She did not reveal the identity of the person or information leading to finding out who that person is. Exposing a person and asking someone for advice regarding a person are two different things.

As for Muslim women comment, it takes two to tango. If you are going to hate the Muslim women then hate the Muslim men as well for taking these women as girlfriends to do haram. I blame the parents more, had their done their job and raised the kids islamically and given them proper islamic education then they wouldn't get into this haram stuff no mater how old they get.
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ASA

JAK akhi. It is true I had not disclosed anything relating to this person.

And yes I agree sometimes kids don't take the right path due to either broken homes or improper education or parents letting children do what they want without consequences

JAK
 
oh..you from London or uk...i think its common there...i am india..here its lesser ...still exist
 

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