My Brothers Wife

[aamirsaab]

k first off it wasnt dawood's fault. he was simply in the wrong place - that happens 2 all of us one in a while.
so he has committed no crime
however, his sister in law has. but, there are probably countless reasons for her behaviour. if it were me i would try and talk to my brother. i understand the implications of this and that they would be extreme. however, if you truly love your borther and wish no harm 2 come to him then talk to him about it. dont start saying, however, oh she came on to me the other day - that wont work.
start the convo off nice and smoothly. i nfact, make dua for your sister in law so that she remians on the right track (btw, dua's do work )

When was the last time she tried 2 come on to you?
if she tries it again then you should say that it isnt right - she is already married and has a kid and the husband is ur bro...that is really serious neways and could be considered an offense. it is also seriously haram that she even think about it.

 

[Umm Yoosuf]

Brother you should never have beem in the same room as this sister, whenever there is a male and female in the same room Shaytan is the third person among those two. The Prophet (saw) did not even allow his wife Aisha(ra) to be alone withher own father Abu Bakr(ra).[/QUOTE]



Really Brother? Have you got hadiths

 

[Mou'minah]

^^ I've never heard that before as well..I'd like to see the Hadith for that too

 

[SalafiFemaleJih]

Asalamaulikum wr wb,

where is dis world leading to?

May Allah swt protect us from EVIL Ameen.
May Allah swt keep us away from whispers of shaytan Ameen.

Ya Allah have mercy on us, protect us, forgive us, and grant us with jannatul firdaus Ameen.

walaikum salaaam wr wb.

 

[swanlake]

Whilst we are not scholars...i would ask myself..if i was that husband, would i want to know if my wife isnt acting proper?? What if i as a her husband get deseases from her? if she came on to my brother, who else would she give the come on? who is next? my father? my best friend, neighbour? Normally it is the betrayed person who is the last to find out.

Br Dawood, put yourself in your brother's position and see if you would want to know about this. I sure would want to know.

 

[ahm]

I don't think she's been with other guys. I think she's been lacking attention from her husband, especially after the baby. The next closest male being her brother-in-law, so she became attached to him. I think you need to tell your brother to spend more time with her, she has rights on him. I don't think you should tell him what happened (especially if she is housebound and rarely leaves the house, there's no reason for more undue suspicion). I think you should tell his wife that she was "mistaken" and that she's just missing her husband - that way you'll save her some embarrassment, and help her get close again with her husband.

Meanwhile, do not be alone with her.

 

[Danish]

bro metsudaistwice, when hyprocrites accursed Aish (may allah bless her) of adultery, Prophet allowed her to goto Abu Bakar's (may allah bless him) house...is there any authentic hadith for that statement of yours?

 

[Abubakar]

Brother Dawood

Firstly you should not be alone with her as you have however innocently encouraged her by over familiarity.

DO NOT tell your brother what has happened. Excuse yourself by telling your brother that he should be giving his wife more attention and you are getting in the way. This is the truth.

If we are honest it is often a failing of us men that we do not give our wives enough attention. Maybe more time together will either highlight the devide between them and they can then do something about it or it will draw them together.

Peace

 

[anwara]

you should have slapped ur sister in law and should have said that ur going to tell her husband, parents.
:sister:

 

[Far7an]

Assalamu alaikum

Some interesting thoughts shared.

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